When a guy becomes distant after sex?

[Anonymous]

I had sex with this guy and to be honest it didn't go aswell as I hoped I was nervous we didn't really know each other that well. It only happened yesterday but it feels like his becoming distant or I don't know if I'm being paranoid. He is still texting me and his not ignoring me or anything and we were joking about the sex but his not texting as much now I just feel crappy. He has his own business so I know his a busy so I don't want to bother him but I do really like him but I feel like I ruined things. Should I just move on or am I overreacting to much? Would he just ignore me full stop if he wasn't that interested?

[Tdieseler]

I'd go with the "you are paranoid" route. The guy is busy...
Also sounds like you want this to become more than sex... which is a little surprising because you just said it didn't go well. I say at this point you are at a cross road...
one... accept that you had sex.. and leave things alone...
two... arrange another sex meet... you know... to see if it will go well this time

I honestly don't see this working well into some relationship... just an opinion. One of you would ruin it...

[Anonymous]

No it's fine don't panic... he's still texting and talking so that's good
Concerning the sex wasn't good.. we girls tend to overthink it but I bet he's not thinking about it that much
Plus if this was your first time between you two then it should be normal

[Anonymous]

Why didn't it go well? Were you a virgin? Was there a date involved or just sex?