Guys, Do men like bigger shoulders on women? I never train my shoulders but they are big and it makes me insecure? I never exercise? I’m 5’9?

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MCheetah · Accepted Answer

They're a little broad, but the rest of you looks nice enough that I don't think guys will notice or care too much. If you really want to, then do about a million squats and get a perfect ass so that guys never even notice the shoulders!

I have broad shoulders too, but me being a short-sh*t at 181 cm, makes me look even worse. I have the body of a mini-fridge, essentially. Not even one of those memetic Xbox Mini Fridges, either. It's NOT attractive to women, especially tall women like you.

So all things considered, I think being a woman with slightly broad shoulders and a fantastic figure (for someone who doesn't work out at all) is nothing compared to being short and boxy and ALSO has broad shoulders.

Guys, Do men like bigger shoulders on women? I never train my shoulders but they are big and it makes me insecure? I never exercise? I’m 5’9?

TheBigGuy9 · Accepted Answer

It’s hot. I dated a few athletes in college. Be proud of it.

Dagr8whitehype · Answer

I'm 6'4" 235 muscular lbs and I have shoulders that I use to knock in doors for a living. (I'm a firefighter) I work out too or sometimes 3 times a day to keep myself in shape and appreciate a woman who looks good as well. The fact that you don't work on your shoulders is irrelevant. From the pictures in my opinion, you look like you do and I can speak for myself and most guys into fitness that it's a gigantic turn on! You look good! I'd rub them anyday!!!

Leavesbound · Answer

Wide shoulders imply strength/muscles. I find that feature attractive especially if the woman is wearing black leather at the time. I also remember when ladies fashion tried to make shoulders seem bigger by adding a lot of padding to clothes. That was very popular in the 1980's. Take a gander at your parent's high school yearbooks and you might see what I'm talking about.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Big shoulders are fine, having dated swimmers on UK selection type level, you get used to girls with big shoulders, yours look fine, really great, I would just not worry about it.

hahahmm · Answer

Nothing to worry about because your shoulders aren't a mismatch for your overall body shape. Some women look strange with big shoulders.

ArileoSag · Answer

Personally if you ask me, it will be difficult for me to like a woman with bigger shoulders. It gives me a manly feeling. For example - Amanda Righetti of Mentalist Series has broad shoulders, although she has a very pretty face but frame wise, some times she looks like Men. Regarding the other men, I surely can't speak for everyone else but area I come from (Middle East-North Africa), preference is for thinner shoulders and thicker ass to which Dutch Women are most of the times, completely opposite. My cousin studied in Rotterdam and when we used to visit him, he also had same opinion. Dutch Women are tall, broad shoulders, thicker and bigger hands, with lean frame and strong legs, an average person of my ethnicity having height of 5.8" would often get intimidated talking to them

Diamold · Answer

Personally, i like them the way you have them.
But i like woman that know they are powerful and can use their strengh when they have to, instead of sensitive flowers that die when you touch them. 😅
Too skinny doesn't look good.

Wiredone · Answer

I don't pay attention to women's shoulders. I consentrate more on her eyes and smile. I think you look beautiful. Don't worry about your shoulders, you look fine

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

Depends what you mean by big shoulders if you mean broad shoulders I don’t typically like broad shoulders on a women it’s a turnoff for me what that’s just my personal preference now clearly if I was vibing with a girl And we clicked I wouldn’t mind and honestly your shoulders look fine to me

llcanon · Answer

they are fine. you look sexy. be happy with yourself- you owe that to yourself to be happy with you as people we have no problem finding people who are not happy with us for one reason or another. smile-your shoulders are fine.

snowboarder720 · Answer

Super attractive. It would make rubbing/massaging your back and shoulders easier.

BCA6010 · Answer

I don't mind. To me, it seems a strange thing to be sensitive over.

TwistedTube · Answer

just looks like you work out tbh. Don't consider it an issue at all

exitseven · Answer

Your shoulders are the perfect size for your frame. Continue with your fitness regime and don't worry about big shoulders.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

I don’t see anything wrong with your shoulders. You look great

Jamesscale · Answer

I think there isn't any problem you look great with such shoulders try to confident and love your live

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't worry. If you hadn't said anything and I just looked at your pics, I wouldn't have thought "she has big shoulders". I wouldn't have likely even noticed.

Smegskull · Answer

We aren't this detail oriented. There isn't an "I'd like her but she has this little physical flaw so I had to move on." approach with guys usually, it's more of an "everything was summed up and averaged and that average was a high enough score for me."

Anonymous · Answer

That's bone structure not muscles. You cannot change your bone structure, but if you want to be happy in life you have to learn to accept the things you cannot change. There will be men who like you just the way you are. And all you need is one.

Andres77 · Answer

It's just part of your body. It's not all of who you are. If my wife had those shoulders I'd love them.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'm 6' 9"! Hi, there!! Do you live around here often?

DrHonesty · Answer

So hot. Means you can give ground shaking hjs too 😋

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Your shoulders are okay and they aren't manly at all, nothing wrong with them and you don't have to worry about it...

SenseiSeptred · Answer

I would enjoy a sparring match with you to say the least. If a woman can kick my ass in a sparring match, then she is a keeper.

RHK36 · Answer

I'm indifferent about female's shoulders. I don't see anything wrong with you.

MrCommodore · Answer

I dont generally like masculine features on women, but looking at those pictures, You look fine and feminine.

Coolkat12345 · Answer

Your shoulders look fine. You look good just have a fun and good personality and you should find the right one

dolemite89 · Answer

they look proportional to me 🤷‍♂️ if u were 5’0 with shoulders that wide i’d sign u up for football lol

Omario2049 · Answer

It's definitely not ideal. Idea is if the shoulders are in line with the hips or smaller. However why concern urself with something u can't change? Don't worry about it. Worry about what's within ur control like not getting fat or ruining ur skin or having a stinky vagina or not having sex with everything that breathes. Even having a decent personality. All these take precedence over ur shoulders.

MrMyOpinion · Answer

Well at least you could throw me over your shoulder when I've had to much to drink thats a plus. LOL just joking.. I think your shoulders are fine in my 50 years of life i can not recall myself ever worring about a girls shoulders, i do remember the 80s were everyone at one point had inserts to make there shoulders huge so it may come back in style and you will have a bigger problem... ; )

Cowboy6666 · Answer

Its not really a serious issue for me, In fact you are fine to me and attractive as well :)

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