What Further She Can do to hide her large Size?

[Anonymous]

I am from Philippines and I Previously had asked a question about My Mom's issue with those Guys who tease and harass her, My Mom Runs a Grocery store ( which is only Source of her income) in a Cheap and Shabby part of the Town, there are a Gang of 20-25 Guys Who sells illegal drugs and That Gang have Nexus with Police l too !

Unlike other Filipino Women, Mom has got huge boobs and she gets lots of unwanted Attentions of those Guys, they often tease and Molest her on the way, When police didn't help her much, then Mom is trying to sell her shop and buy New Shop on a better location of the City but it will take Couple of Months because it's expensive, So Until Mom relocate her Shop, She needs to wear something that could make her boobs looks Smaller, People have Suggested for her to wear Sports bra or Minimizer bra or Chest binders with loose clothes, She is trying to do this but issue is that, those Guys have a big Gang and 4-5 Guys have already seen her and they had torn her blouse and bra off So those Guys know she has big boobs, So even When Mom is trying to wear tight bra and loose clothes to hide them, it works and help her with other Guys of that Gang but it is not helping with those 4-5 Guys Who have already seen her, When they see Mom, they get to know that she is trying to hide her big boobs by some Specific bra !

What she Can further do here for those 4-5 Guys?

[huggybear02]

I have pretty big boobs and i have issues with guy making comments about me, but, thankfully, none of them have ever gotten violent. Apart from having a weapon, i would suggest, something like full body shapewear... i wear this sometimes if i'm going somewhere i don't feel comfortable. You can buy shapewear that will suppress your chest, and it will also prevent anyone from really being able to grope you or whatever... it can get a little uncomfortable if worn all day, but it really helps to hide a larger bust if worn with baggy clothes. Sometimes, I will also dress like a boy, with baggy jeans, etc. and it would definitely deter pervs

[Asker]

@huggybear02 My Mom has got big boobs Naturally and she was around DD size but in last 2-3 Years she had gained some weight so her size has also increased, So she feels difficult to hide them through tight sports bra and other side 4-5 Guys of that Gang has already seen her large boobs ( when they had torn her shirt/bra off ) So they know about her ! it will take 3-4 Months to sell the house and shop and to move in a New City but till then she needs to wear some clothes that can help her ! In Winters she used to wear large Jackets or hoodies but she can't wear them Right Now in Peak Summer seasons !

[huggybear02]

I'm really sorry that this is happening to her... I know that there are several companies that sell "anti-rape" underwear, but that won't really help if they are touching her elsewhere. In the summertime, the only thing i can think of is wearing a tight fitting body suit under her clothes, preferably one that is really hard to get off... that way, even if they attempted to tear off her outer layer of clothes, it would be hard to get into the body suit... i will link one below

bit. ly/3ztTpTI

[Asker]

@huggybear02 Thanks for the link, I will check if she can get it here in Philippines ! If Body Suit is built of strong fabric and Material then it can help My Mom as she will have some more times to scream or Run away if they attack her, However they are Criminals and they keep Guns and knife with them, last time they had torn her shirt and they cut her bra off but it was just ordinary clothes, And If it is not too much expensive then My Mom can try to get that Anti rape underwear too, however they usually target on her large boobs from her front !

[Secure12]

I know you have invited me to share an opinion, being quite about it won't be good. The truth is I don't know what to say. A lot of people go through a lot because of their appearance. I would have suggested for her to seek for help from the police and you have just stated that the police are failing their duties. Those guys sounds as if they respect nobody at all. Having big boobs or behind isn't a crime one has to suffer for. I guess your mother will need people to protect her who are able to stand up to those otherwise nothing she can do to make them back off.

[Asker]

@secure12 I know what you mean to say, Also those Guys are "Targeting " My Mom just not only because of her big boobs, its also as they know She don't have Protection and No one is going to intervene or help her ! If My Mom was from a Rich and Powerful family then situation would have been different ! Have you seen My other Question?

[Secure12]

It's really sad, us that are not rich are misfortune. I just pray no more harm comes to your mother. Always pray for her safety I know not all of us believe in prayers. I didn't see it yet, but I will look at it.

[Asker]

Thank You

[WinnieJr]

Obviously I don't know much about this stuff, but I would suggest maybe a baggy jumper and jacket over the top or something like that. Or maybe something to make her look wider? So it makes her breasts look smaller? I'm not completely sure, but I suggest carrying pepper spray or something like that if it's legal in case they try harming her again. And I would suggest it in bright pink or a vivid colour or it could easily be identified and taken. Anything to make sure she stays safe! Good Luck!

[Asker]

@winniejr What is a baggy jumper? My Mom used to wear jackets and hoodies in winters but Summers she can't wear them and she finds its difficult to hide her large boobs in Summer shirts or top, though she try to wear loose and over sized clothes also there is a another problem too, 3-4 Guys had torn her shirt/bra off two months ago so they got to to see her topless, now they know about her actual large size So No matter what type of bra or clothes she wear to hide them still they chase her and they tell about her to their other Gang members as well !

[WinnieJr]

A jacket or hoodie could work but it would be uncomfortable. So she could wear darker colours, or something called a vneck woman's top. I think that if she is getting assaulted and chased in the first place, the police should do something. But you said that you tried and they didn't- is there anyone else you can go to about this? If not, I would again suggest pepper spray or some sort of weapon that doesn't harm like it, which isn't illegal where you are, so that they don't try to rip her top again. If the gang members are telling each other, then I'd still suggest making them look smaller so that they lose trust in each other. But it is terrible that they are attacking her in the first place!
Here's a source that might be useful: "https://www. wikihow. com/Make-Large-Breasts-Look-Smaller"
I hope that she'll be able to wear what she wants to when you move the shop! If you have any prominent male figure you trust, maybe even yourself if you look intimidating, I suggest having her walk with them just to show the gang that she has protection, even if it's just once. Good Luck again!

[Asker]

@winniejr Thanks for the link, I would ask My Mom to give it a try as well, And I think like you mentioned until my Mom relocate her store to a safer Place It is important that she wear such clothes that could make her boobs looks smaller, She won't get much attention of those Guys and Also New Guys won't be able to guess about her actual size and she will get some relief !

[johnsmithjs]

If the police are not willing to do anything then you are left with only 1 option. You need to learn how to protect yourself and your family.

The last time I was in the Philippines it was quite easy to get a firearm, I suggest you learn how to use one.

[Asker]

@johnsmithjs I don't want My Mom to Provoke them By Gun as they are hardcore Criminals and they can kill her too... It was Not as bad in the beginning, they used to tease & harass her verbally Only... BUT My Mom did a big mistake, Two Months ago One day those 4-5 Guys were harassing and commenting on her large boobs size, My Mom felt Anger and she started scolding them... it was her big Mistake, it made those Guys Violent and Aggressive and they tore her shirt & bra off, she became topless and they got to see her large boobs size also they took her topless pics, Which they showed to their other friend in the Gang ! Now Since that day many Guys of that Gang are stalking and Molesting her, Now she wants to sell all the assets and wants to move on but even at the earliest it will take still 2-3 Months !

[johnsmithjs]

I did not say your mom, I said you! If they are running in groups of 4 or 5 guys wait until there are no witnesses and take care of buisness. I am sure there are rival gangs, make it look like it was a rival gang. They will not suspect your mother. Win, Win.

[MM5578]

I agree. The only option is to defend her. As @johnsmithjs said, get yourself a firearm and round up your friends. Pick them off one at a time. I ordinarily wouldn’t give advice like this, but here in the US we can call the police for things like this. You don’t seem to have that luxury. Are the residents in your neighborhood okay with this gang being in charge? My guess is no. Talk to your neighbors. You outnumber them.

[NibirX]

1. every country have some service about women and children abuse instant help phone call...

2. having a baseball bat (best is a gun)

***There is no easy way to get relief by them until they got afraid about something from her***

Being alone is the worst vulnerable way. So having someone with her like neighbor, relative is better...

Best is : You can buy her a taser gun attached with mobile from online at cheap rate...(don't need license, specially made for woman,, and very very painful,, almost resulting instant knockout)

She will feel assured...

[dezzman98]

Have her get a weapon maybe, I don't know how dangerous the guys are but maybe that would keep them at bay till y'all can relocate?

[Asker]

I don't want her to engage them alone, it can endanger her life as they are criminals so they also have weapons !

[haooy]

Is this for real, if someone has harrased my mom like that, I would have waited for those guys the next day lock and loaded whatever the outcome, I fu**** don't care.
This is unreal to me. Or maybe I live in a different part of the world.

[Asker]

I am from Philippines you from?

[haooy]

I am from India.

[Shandul]

@haooy I have heard about India a lot, You have Mount Everest there? And in your Country how common is to find large boobs size women?

[haooy]

Mount Everest is technically in Nepal, I don't know how to answer your question. I mean why do you ask.

[Shandul]

Okay... Got it ! Yeah, I saw this question and you mentioned about India, I asked just for being curious

[PoliteSpeaker]

There is an easy way to fix it but I ain't saying it publicly. And you wouldn't cannot get her to do it anyway so gl

[Asker]

@politespeaker If its easy way to fic this issue then My Mom would like to take a chance, You may tell me here, May be it can be helpful !

[kina003]

Oh my God that's horrible, how can they be so unrespectful? I do not have big boobs si i obviously don't know but I think it would be better if your mum takes another road to go to her work place

[Asker]

@kina003 Those Guys are just Criminals, Now they already know that My Mom has big boobs So No matter What type of bra or baggy clothes She wears to hide her large size Still they stalk her and molest her and there is only 2 Route to go to her store from the home !

[kina003]

I'm so sorry , i just hope she gets her new store soon

[qwert1234]

If you could move asap, move out.
Life > store.

[Asker]

Yeah, Moving away is Last option and we are trying to manage it but New Place is more expensive from here So its taking time, Now those Guys who molest My Mom they also have figured out that we can move out So we will have to flee in early Morning ! but till then My Mom need to wear safest clothes, last time they had torn her shirt/bra off, That's why she is quite worried !

[TrippyMack]

Try to have here wear overalls itll cover her boobs make her look less attractive. But in most cases men just don’t care especially if they already know she has the goods but try the overalls.

[Asker]

@trippymack Overalls clothes you means like a Gown? Now My Mom don't wear shirt or top and she has started wearing loose clothes with tight sports bra, But since 3-4 Guys have already seen her so they know she has big boobs and they cause her Problems !

[TrippyMack]

Google search “overalls for women” you probably wore these as a kid.

[Prideful]

A strong man on the side.
A machete.
A knife.
Whatever to intimidate.

[Prideful]

By the way avoid PoliteSpeaker's way, it's not worth it at all.
Just defend and move away.

[Asker]

So do you think if you don't speak soft or Politely then those Criminals will get scared? they don't care about going going to be Jail or get killed !

[Prideful]

Just do the bare minimum, prevent their hands from touching her.
It's dangerous and they may decide to kill you but it's not necessary to live scared.

[uyruantete]

U Should buy a taser or real gun with a license if the Police doesn't help u

[Vivian7k]

buy her a little gun

[Asker]

@vivian7k They are criminals and they already have guns and knife

[Jlegacy]

This should be reported to the cops.

[Asker]

She already reported to Corrupt Police

[ForgottenFuRyan]

Fasted cardio > hiding

[Hardme69]

Easy! Dont! Big is sexy

[siseñor]

buy her a little gun

[karaspara]

Shoot them

[keirl]

Hit them with a bat

[Asker]

@keirl they are hardcore criminals !