Why would he hug everyone goodbye except me?

[Anonymous]

This guy hugged everyone goodbye (all men, and one girl) except for me. He will initiate conversation with me, ask me questions about things I like, etc so I know it’s not because he dislikes me… sometimes I would even think maybe he likes me… but If he did why would he hug everyone except me?

[jshm2]

Could be you have big titties? But joking aside, if he "disliked" you then he would be saying it or indicating it.

I walk into meetings and shake some hands, greet others and fist bump the odd one or two on occasion. There will sometimes be ones there I don't even acknowledge. Doesn't mean I hate them, or have anything against them. They are just not people who's focus or attention is required.

[Asker]

Would actually having big titties have an impact on this… because I do. Lol

[Anonymous]

He either doesn't like you (which you seem eager to dismiss, because you think basic politeness and being civil to someone counts as liking them) or he is pretty sure you don't like him or you don't like physical contact.

If he liked you (let's pretend he does) and he's shown interest or flirted, did you ignore him, shut him down or act frigid? Something that would make him think you would prefer to be avoided?

[Asker]

I guess I see it as more than basic politeness because he initiates conversations with me quite often. When I’m polite with someone I don’t like (at least as a friend) I don’t chat or ask questions beyond the bare minimum.

I am relatively shy so there is potential I have come off as frigid. He has also said before that he is insecure so my shyness would not help most likely

[sleepyAlpaca3]

There is a chance he likes you. Maybe he doesn't want to hug you because then you'll enter the ✨friend zone✨ and he doesn't kniw how to tell you that he likes you or smth.

[normalice]

So you would notice and wonder why. But mostly so you would notice.

[Asker]

Well that worked then !

[boggboss]

Only he has the answer maybe he is uncomftble with hugging you

[rcljr]

Maybe he likes you but wants you to make the first move.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you come across as a feminist and he doesn’t want a sexual assault case on his hands for giving you a hug.

[Ennyredglow]

No idea