Why does this guy keep sending me pictures of other girls?

[Anonymous]

I have been chatting with this guy for a few weeks now. We are new friends. Friendship is the only thing I’ve ever offered him because I don’t find him attractive. He is in every way not my type. I also plan to work things out with my ex when I finish working on myself. I have made this friend aware of that and he claims he plans to do the same with his ex. He claims I’m not his type all while asking me about the color of my bra and panties. All while telling me sexual things he would do to me. He proclaims his love for his ex (he cheated on her with lots of women) but will send me pics of girls he either has had sex with or claims to want to have sex with. I tell him not to send me pics so when he sends me pics of girls I send him pics of guys. then he accuses me of being jealous but I’m really not I don’t care I just don’t want a bunch of pictures of girls on my phone. I’m already running low on space as it is. I have made it very clear I don’t like him as anything more than a friend and I don’t. Yet he insist on continuing to behave like a child and I’m honestly getting tired of it. I’m considering ending our friendship. Am I behaving too irrationally?

[Wise4myage]

Not sure about the pics he sends you, maybe he hoping they turn you on in some way? But he's full of shit and lying about you not being his type, or he wouldn't be asking intimate questions.

I think you need to cut him out of your life.

[Asker]

You are completely right. I think the best thing to do is just not be friends with him.

[Wise4myage]

Thank you, and it also sounds like he is getting in the way of you working on yourself.

[Asker]

In a way he really is. Being a negative distraction. I’ve enjoyed his friendship and our conversations when it’s not him constantly sending me pics of half dressed women but he seems to be toxic so it’s for the better to just cut him completely before it makes me revert back to being toxic

[Wise4myage]

Exactly, and if he just wanted to be friends then he wouldn't be asking about your bra and underwear, unless you mentioned it first.

[Asker]

I never talk about anything sexual with him. I’ve told him plenty of times I am not an option for him or anyone else and I stand by that. I don’t even send pics of myself to him. He just bring it’s up out of no where and I never offer an answer when he has asked it. I’ve blocked him now though on most social media. Just 1 or 2 others to go.

[Wise4myage]

Cool, you did the right thing and I wish you the best.

[Asker]

Thank you 🙂

[Wise4myage]

You bet!

[Avicenna]

He's one of those dirtbags you have to block because as long as you talk to him, he thinks he has a chance to get into your pants. I don't see any friendship here anyway, so there's definitely no loss.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true. We were friends for what it’s worth up until he didn’t respect my wishes and continued to send pictures.

[spartan55]

Just get rid of him, sounds like a waste of time.

[spartan55]

by the way, he is sending those pictures because you let him.

[Asker]

Yea. It’s my fault he is sending the pics. I’ve already unfriended him and blocked him. Thanks

[spartan55]

It is your fault if you kept letting him send them before... not talking about now.

[Sketti2021]

I'd definitely end it

[Asker]

Right well I plan to message him and tell him I’m not interested in being his friend anymore. He is too childish. I just wanted to make sure I’m not overreacting or being irrational because I have a tendency to do that sometimes.

[Sketti2021]

I wouldn't even bother with doing that

[Asker]

You’re right. I’ll just block him. I didn’t know though if he would start contacting me from fake numbers or fake profiles. As I’ve talked to him more I don’t put it past him with how childish he is.

[Anonymous]

He's mentally ill

[Asker]

Lmao probably.

[Iron_Man]

Ask him

[Asker]

I have asked him. He is very childish. I wish I could post pictures here of our conversation but I can’t but trust me I have asked him. Multiple times even.

[Iron_Man]

Sorry

[Anonymous]

He wants you for sexual purposes.