What does it mean if a guy says he cares a lot about me but doesn’t love me?

[Anonymous]

He still wants a long term exclusive thing and we intermittently live together.

[hahahmm]

He doesn't view you as serious relationship material and/or he's not interested in ever having a serious relationship but he enjoys having sex with you. A lot of people think a relationship is serious because you live together or do XYZ but it's really not about that. It's about both people being fully committed and loyal.

You're not getting any younger so IF you really want to find more than what this guy is offering, you should move on and find it elsewhere.

[ohshee]

There's all different types of love and it's trying to tell you that he loves you but just not in that way

[Asker]

In what way does and doesn’t he love me? I don’t quite get it

[ohshee]

Well I have very very good friends that I mean I love I love a lot of things about them but I know down deep if we ever got together that it just wouldn't work out so there's that type of love to in a way he's protecting you or he is protecting himself

[Jessica405]

How many years do you want to waste being with a guy that doesn't love you? He will end up using you during your prime, and may well dump you when he does find someone he loves. After all those years, it will be harder for you to find a true love.

[Anonymous]

After he says that ‘’ i don’t love you’’ it means that he doesn’t like you romantically as you expected. Maybe he cares about you as a sister or friend.

[Waldoe]

you are his sex buddy, he wants to keep you around for an easy sexual release, he knows he will fall in love some day and wants to Not feel bad about running off, I mean he has already told you...

[Asker]

He told me he’s wary of women after a bad divorce

[sullyk1234]

if he cres and doesn't love you move on and find someone else

[sullyk1234]

cares

[spartan55]

It means he wants to bang other chicks. Wake up.

[Asker]

No, he doesn't. He gets all the sex he wants any way he likes. It's not about sex.

[spartan55]

No, he doesn't get all the sex he wants any way he likes, trust me. If he did, he would commit. You are being naive.

[spartan55]

And you are being used.

[ToastyOats]

Damn. That sucks.

[Anonymous]

he's only using you to fuck you