What are signs a guy friend likes you?

[Anonymous]

Will he mention another female friend? We went on a date. I invited him swimming and after we swam he invited me to eat. He talked about a stuffed toy that was in his backseat. He mentioned that it was for his childhood friend who is a girl. At one point he placed the stuff toy on my lap so I could play with it. The next morning he texted me and said I was great company and he had a fun time. Would him mentioning his female friend be a sign he doesn't like me?

[pickedcrisps]

Can I ask a personal question about how the date went during swimming or no? It would help clear things up for me. My question is, was he clearly giving you interested looks in you bikini or bathing suit or nothing untoward? Otherwise he's either just platonic or he feels you're a helpful female friend. You know. A perspective of a female mind.

Oh well 😇

[Asker]

He didn't visible check me out that day of swimming but he has said I look great and beautiful in the past. Also he took off his shirt in front of me when I was in my car. He didn't go inside his car to change. He stood on the side where I can see him.

[Asker]

He randomly calls me like once a week to check on me. We talk for like 30 min to an hour when he calls

[pickedcrisps]

Hmm. And how does that make you feel... you want him to be more or just happy to keep him platonic

[pickedcrisps]

I mean for me swimming just seems to me like something I would as a guy ask a woman to do if I was wanting to see her in her best uhh look. You know. Like even my friends when me and my guys catch up none of us ever have said go swimming. Like... you know... I don't know if all that matters... oh well...

[Asker]

I invited him to swim, so basically he just said yes so he could see me in a swimsuit? I am interested in him as more than a friend. It was the constant phone calls he'd make and the deep compliments he gave.

[pickedcrisps]

I'm not saying he did. Why do you think he jumped at the chance to say yes because he thought he'd get to see you in a bikini? 🧐 Oh well. Lady I'm very confused myself. Maybe he likes you. Maybe you like him. I guess it's whatever you feel comfortable with and or him. After all you're the woman in all of this. A woman's word rules nowadays. I should know. I'm a man. I've already had my own regretful court dramas with an ex. Sigh.

[pickedcrisps]

I guess the signs are that yes I'd have said yes too. 😁 Thats my answer. Haha.

[pickedcrisps]

And I probably would've caught many glances during the swim "date" and smiled a lot.

[pickedcrisps]

Can I ask one last personal personal question?

[Jay3344]

Without knowing more it seems like you guys are good company together. Does he seek you out? Do you laugh together and go places together. Does he ever blow you off for this other girl? Those answers would help a person give a better response.

[spartan55]

No guy wants to be your friend...

[Anonymous]

He probably doesn't like you, only as friends.