315 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. If you have an issue with it, give it a light trim to just thin it down a bit, women really do generally like chest hair on a guy, maybe not quite to that extent, but don't be going shaving or waxing it. I did that once because it thought it's what women wanted, I was wrong and it was very uncomfortable, won't be doing that again.
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You gor your chest waxed?
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But didn't you liked the temporary smoothness and also didn't they ladies liked it too?
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Would you think ladies would prefer/like my level of hairienss too over water bare?
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If that were my chest I’d be cool with it. I don’t mind chest hair, I’m a little hairy, and I keep the hair I have. If someone felt that were too much, it could be trimmed a little, but that’s it
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You'd be totally fine with yourself?
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Your friend is comfortable and confident of his very hairy body and even women seem to accept it as it is?
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So if it's clearly visible from the front collar button at the top then what to do?
No? My boyfriend has a pretty good amount of body hair on his chest and belly and he has a full beard and guess what? I LOOOOVE IT. I love rubbing his chest and belly and playing with his beard. I call him my bear. There's nothing wrong with body hair and many women find it attractive.
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A pretty good amount almost as much as the guy in pic above z also all over his belly?
Isn't / hasn't he ever been self conscious/felt bad or insecure about it or even shaved / waxe it because he felt odd about it especially next to a woman's skin? - +1 y
you sure he just isn't in a transitional state before he's a full on werewolf? :o
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How about if the guy also has somewhat hairy shoulder/side of back?
- Xper 6 Age: 33 , mho 41%+1 y
These answers suck lol
I vote: He should accept it and do whatever the heck he wants.124 Reply- +1 y
Hahaha. If you were such male then?
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Still vote best option above
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@anylolone that's true
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@quietcuite
Lmao I can't, I've been a woman way too long, it's too late for me.
@anylolone
Consequences for body hair? That's crazy, it's just hair. Shave because you want to shave. Don't be pressured into it, because the right woman will truly not give a crap about it as long as you're happy. - +1 y
Acne is temporary for most and treatable as an adult.
I had to google receding chin; I didn't know that had a name, anyway my friend has that. He's married and just celebrated his 2 year anniversary.
Don't let people bully you, even women. I had bad ance as a teen and been bullied, but you got to brush that sh*t off. Been race shamed too by an ex because I wasn't Asian (he said this so much like I was going to do something about it, god I had such bad taste in men back then lol).
The sh*t people get upset about is insane and random, but catering yourself to the world will make you unhappy. - +1 y
Please, be honest, you understand there's such thing as averages?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but those beholders sure seem to think very much alike and all think they are special and different.
Now, go into honesty mode and be analytical.
Do it like your life depends on it. - +1 y
Pretty privilege is a thing, it just something that doesn't guide me.
Exactly what do you want me to be honest about? - +1 y
What do you think I find pretty?
What are the consequences? I was speaking about rejection and bullying, but it appears you are talking about something else entirely. - +1 y
Pretty privilege in my opinion is mostly toward women. Our bust size, our butt/hips, make up, shaving, hair, weight, etc all plays a factor whether we like it or not. The women who were trained in cosmetics/hair/etc by family members or even self taught are at the advantage because men are naturally visual ( it's not a bad thing) which leads to favoritism. For women, it's just normal. Some are more affected by this than others, but this type of rejection is largely accepted and expected.
However, men don't nesassrily have this worry. Even though women give birth, men's strenght built/maintain this world, and it's mostly men in high, powerful places; you dont need to be tall, and hairless to move up the ladder; just get your confidence/charmisa up.
If you're after short term goals to sow your wild oaks, then by all means shave and cater the desires of women out there who care about your hair (best approach, make em laugh); but you dont need too, because the women with the highest potential to become your wife won't be so demanding, but rather want peace/acceptance. - +1 y
Lol! Woman, you have spoken, you shown what you think it's not "pretty privilege" and it's overly hairy chest. Please, woman, just try being honest and some candor.
Oh, mostly towards women? Sorry, did I misheard you over 80/20?
Do I have pretty privilege because functionally I seem to be part of the 20? (maybe not as much nowdays as I definitely hit the wall.)
Let me shock you with how much "pretty privilege" I have. I've been called beautiful and pretty as often as the average woman. - +1 y
I'm not sure what you're aiming for anymore lol. Pretty privilege was only brought up because you keep talking about beauty and how others have it worse due to receding chins, acne, or whatever, which is basically talking about privilege. Pretty privilege is mostly used toward women and the best way I can shorten everything you were decribing in a way I'm familiar with. Do I care about it? No lmao. Does it mean pretty privilege is nonexistent because I dont care about it? No. However, I didn't think it would trigger you so hard though.
If you want to follow that then by all means go for it; it's your body, do what you want with it... which takes us back to original point lmao. Oh man, this is goofy. - +1 y
I do? You're a bad spy, cause you dont know me at all.
Anyway, I already explained why I even mentioned pretty privilege, what I think about it, and my stance on it. You're too desperate to attack my character by implying I'm lying and telling me to be honest. - +1 y
@anylolone
Where? - +1 y
@anylolone
Lol ok
For educational purposes I'll explain acne to you. Acne is a skin condition caused by clogged pores, or hair follicles if you want to be technical. It's not meant to be forever, and if it is then is a chronic skin condition. For some people with severe acne, it can even be painful, and requires treatment rather than letting it go away on its own.
Don't know where the oddball case comment came from. If you're pulling from other commenters to prove my own opinions then you really trying too hard. - +1 y
But it can be a chronic condition, you admit as such. The oddball case is your "cousin"? I don't remember if he's really your cousin. The receding chin guy.
Both have consequences, both are natural, and the consequence is, well, that it's hard to find women that find you sexually attractive if you have those.
Same with excessive body hair, on average, as we can see here by female opinion. - +1 y
@anylolone
So you're coming at me without even fully reading my post or understanding my viewpoint, yet I'm the one who is implied to be a liar for not fitting your assumptions/opinions lol.
Understand that acne is categorize as a skin disease, it cannot be the same as body hair or natural chin size.
Consequences... didn't think I would be teaching an 41yo guy this, but opinions are like assholes, everyone is going to have one. If you're born a little different, own it; it's your body. - +1 y
1. I'm understanding your viewpoint, which is why I tackle it.
2. Irrelevant, consequences are the same.
3. yes, but opinions are better when they are honest. I'm not 23 like OP, and a clean skin still does makes wonders to this day.
I have a nipple piercing, do you think that when I put it I'd have to stop women, my female friends from giving me an infection through sucking if I maintained a hairy chest? Or even just the stomach?
I'm old and pass the wall, way pass the wall, yet I still have to keep a safe distance.
(it's healed, so the infection it's not a problem, the embarrassment is. It's 10yo, more than healed but young enough to make biden want to sniff it.)
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I think it is totally fine and I find it attractive too. I would find the opposite unattractive which is not body hair at all. Don't shave it as it will grow back thicker.
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Okay 👍😀
It's somewhat excessive though, so prefer at least somewhat trimmed? - +1 y
Vote too please
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If someone has lots of thighs and legs hair too... and somewhat hairy shoulder?
- Guru Age: 21 , mho 60%+1 y
Okay, I’m out! I’m done answering your questions on your issues with male body hair! This is basically an unhealthy obsession at this point.
10 Reply - Guru Age: 34 , mho 40%+1 y
There are people who really like body hair. I’m just not one of them. It’s not an issue as long as he removes it somehow before we play though. Left long it’s definitely a turn off for me though.
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A closely trimmed coarse chest hair is ok for you?
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Ok in what sense? It doesn’t bother me if I’m not having sex with them, it’s just a turn off is all
- Xper 7 Age: 37+1 y
Insecurities are pointless to me. Eventually when someone has a partner, that person accepts who they're with. So who cares. Also who cares what other people think anyways of how you look. It's all in the mind.
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If you had such chest then how would you feel and do?
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I have a hairy chest too. Not as hairy as yours though. My ex gfs and women I dated liked it.
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What did they say / do to make you think that they liked hairy?
- Xper 7 Age: 21+1 y
I have absolutely no problem with a male or female having any hair on their bodies. As long as they keep it well kept. The guy in the photo example is a little too much for me, personally.
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So what would you prefer/suggest for such excessive?
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Vote above too
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I voted before I commented lol
my fantasy popped up when i saw the picture.. like a werewolf half transformed lol
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What fantasy?
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That's animalistic hairy z that's what you mean?
So how would you want it to be kept? - +1 y
So trim, wax , shave, laser?
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So mean 😭
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How about shave it and enjoy the prickly stubble of his body hair against your skin 😱😋😜
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So you either want it all waxed bare or all natural furry?
- Xper 4 Age: 21+1 y
Please don’t invite me to these dumb questions anymore, you have a weird obsession with hair
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It's because I have excessive amount that's not so common
Do you mind your hairiness? Nevermind what other people think! The right person will want you the way you are... what you gotta decide is if YOU'RE ok with yourself!
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It looks really odd and animalistic compared next to a woman's smooth hair free skin... that's the main problem of this :/
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Just wondering as a female what's your view?
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Some hair... right?
But that's a LOT OF HAIR.. how about this much? Would you loose your feelings if already mid way and see that when he's shirtless?
How about normally without sexual arousal general day to day life scenario? - +1 y
I understand that. But after those moments would you bring this topic and ask him to either remove it from next time or simply forget about you?
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It ain't just a hook up. Suppose such a guy is being nice to you , making efforts to woo/impress you and be in romantic And sexual relationship with you... but you could clearly see his very hairy forearm and upper chest hair... what would you do/feel/think about him then?
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You want a clear cut answer, but there isn't one. There are so many factors to take into consideration. Are his efforts sweet and charming or reek of trying too hard? Is his face handsome or homely? (although that's subjective)... is he smart or a moron? Witty or crass? so much depends on so much... body hair isn't the be all end all
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I see. So him being excess hairy won't hamper or bother a woman at all even if she's not much into it... she'll be open to give him a chance based on other factors?
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Haha yeah
- Xper 1 Age: 29+1 y
These questions are ridiculous from a guy ! Man up !
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Ridiculous? How so? Am wondering
- Guru Age: 25+1 y
Men like those are actually rare
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Umhmm. So?
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So there's no point in complaining about it
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Ehh... that's rare... means it's abnormal... yet no point feeling self conscious and bad... and complaining about this issue?
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So because an individual is different it means that individual is abnormal? Makes no sense
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If he's VERY different from the norm/average then yeah
If YOU were such then how would you feel/do? - +1 y
No, it doesn't
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How would you keep yourself then
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Just because it's different doesn't mean he behaves different
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Vote above too
that is gross
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To what extent?
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How about hairy legs?
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No hairy legs?
Shave it
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