Women, what are the things that makes a man unattractive & a turn off?

[hahahmm]

I'm asking because I liked a similar question about women someone posted a while back: Men what are the things that makes a female unattractive and a big turn off?

Eventually I will summarize the best answers somewhere.

[DizzyDesii]

To me personally—
smoking (anything especially weed), too much body hair, if he cusses every other word, if he calls people B*** and C***, if he drinks daily/weekly, if he's obsessed with anal sex, if he brags about all the women he can get or all the women he’s played, if he overly uses sarcasm, if he has a dry ass personality and hardly laughs/smiles, when he doesn't believe in God and constantly questions why i do (in an attempt to turn me against my beliefs), if he doesn't want kids, if he's too lazy to get a job, if he's constantly under his mom, if he's too into politics/debating, if he’s indecisive af, if he doesn't even attempt to stay in shape, if he rudely burps while im in the middle of my meal, if he's obsessed with videogaming/anime/partying/social media, if he has a lot of kids and a lot of baby mamas, if he's very rude and constantly blunt, wants to travel more than a few times a year, has too many sexual partners, if he's bi or trans, if he has too many tats or piercings

[Rudon00]

Amen Desi. I love the part when you say. He does not believe in God and questions why you do

[DizzyDesii]

@Rudon00 yes because I've broken up with 2 guys for that. I prefer not to date another atheist or whatever but i still find myself attracted to them until i learn of that

[Rudon00]

I understand desi. Do not be unequally yoke

[St37xy11]

Wow you listed a lot of good ones that I forgot to mention

[DizzyDesii]

@St37xy11 thank you ;)

[St37xy11]

Smoking. I heard someone say if he doesn't respect his body then he won't respect you.

If he has kids from a previous marriage/relationship. I don't want that complicated life.

If he's Diamond Jim Brady whenever he has money.

He doesn't respect boundaries.

If he cusses in mixed company. I want to be treated like a lady, I don't cuss. I was raised to never cuss. I know everyone is not like that and this isn't so much an issue for most people. But it looks trashy when a guy drops the f word in every sentence.

He dresses like a vagabond. Like you can see his underwear or really dirty clothes like he wears his works clothes as normal clothes and he looks like a bum. He doesn't make himself at least a little presentable.

He's obsessed with weed or other drugs. A guy who doesn't believe in God. Religion is important to me.

[Browneye57]

He's short.
Broke
Indecisive
weak, passive - physically, mentally
smelly, dishoveled
conforming
too nice, supplicating
has no options - other women don't want him
micro penis
clueless in bed
No game

That pretty well covers it. :)

[t-8900]

"too nice, supplicating
has no options - other women don't want him"

these are the most important ones to focus on if you aren't trying to get cheated on or abused.

[Browneye57]

@t-8900 - Yep. Women can sniff desperation from a mile away.
Have an 'abundance mentality'. Rollo is big on this. If you get stuck in one-itis they'll command power over you - own you. No pussy is worth that. In fact, no pussy is worth being owned for - it's just pussy.
Women will come and go in your life - just remember that YOU ARE THE PRIZE? So start acting like it.

[Anonymous]

No confidence, A push over, not have an open mind (hypocritical) he can date multiple people but if I do it I’m being considered a Whore. Un- Communicative I hate when we talking things are going well then all of sudden the guy stop talking to you especially when you start to open ( Vulnerable).

[Siren777]

Poor hygiene, lack of self control or discipline, no form of accountability, if he doesn't know what he wants? disloyalty and dishonesty.

[OlderAndWiser]

Women hate a momma's boy!

[DizzyDesii]

I like if he respects his mom but if he's constantly under her and wants to go to her house everyday for dinner, nah

[OlderAndWiser]

@DizzyDesii BY "momma's boy." I mean one of those weenies who won't ever do anything without momma's approval.

[DizzyDesii]

Oh yea those are the same ones im referring too

[St37xy11]

That's easy to fix by laying down the law. He should choose his family with his wife over his needy mom. He has to decide is it better to worsen the relationship with his wife (who'll take the kids away and his money. Though I wouldn't do that but that's what most likely happens after divorce) or always be on call for his mom. He can just limit the interactions he has with his mother.

[OlderAndWiser]

@St37xy11 You are addressing this problem as if it is an intellectual matter. He doesn't need to be told what he should do and have the options explained. A momma's boy acts that way because of emotional motivations and no explanation is going to change his emotional reaction. You can't change this problem; all you can do is walk away from it.

[St37xy11]

Hmm I guess so. So basically he'll always choose his mom over his partner in any situation

[OlderAndWiser]

@St37xy11 He is afraid to not choose his mom.