Some questions about why men are so attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

If I’m so quiet, why does every male at my job always try to get jokey or even flirty with me? It’s so weird. I get I am attractive, but I get way too much attention.

Do shy introvert women ever get used to this? And yes while I am introverted, I actually am very sweet inside and just love people to some extent so if anyone is talking to me for one second, I give them my full attention and am very cordial and smiley even under the face mask 😊😛

I am nice even if inside I feel hurt by someone so yeah.

But deep down I actually dont need all of the men trying to interact with me. I only want a serious huband material.

[Keyboardkat]

A rule of thumb about attraction is, opposites attract. Shy or introverted guys like me (or like I used to be) are attracted to extroverted, happy, outgoing girls. Extroverted guys, for example self-confident sales types, tend to be attracted to quieter, shy girls. The reason is that each one of us completes what is missing in the other. The Bible story of Adam and Eve says that Eve was taken from Adam's side. Thus, a guy and a girl are really two sides of the same entity and we're always looking to find our other half!
The that you say you love people and you five them your full attention, and are cordial and smiley, well, this is something that many guys find absolutely irresistible in a girl! But that's just part of being who you are, you shouldn't try to change it, which you probably can't anyway. Look at it this way: This give you a wide choice, and it will make it easier for you to find the right husband material!

[In_Trance]

maybe it's circumstantial. you're the only one there; no other choice

[Niebrjdd]

there's many girls even whorish ones around...

[Ninani]

You just answered your own question. They like you because you pay attention to them.

[Asker]

I dont approach men for convos, i dont start convos... I am not good st keeping a convo going. I am just cordial with manners and appreciate humans in the moment. Many times i even dont make eye contact. Guys will still come to me even after i have blatantly ignored them many times. I dont even offer anything except being nice person. I am not clever or quick witted. Guys always say im awkward and slow.

[Keyboardkat]

Apparently you have SOMETHING that rings guys' chimes!

[Reijen]

It is probably definitely about your looks.

[Niebrjdd]

I dont look that good. Unless people see something i dont.

[Reijen]

You did say you look attractive. Perhaps more than you realize.

[Niebrjdd]

Its real weird to see myself that way.

[Reijen]

That's fine, you don't look at yourself that way.