I sent a DM to a guy I liked and he unfriended me, the next couple of days he was looking at me sad and his friends were too, what could this be?

[Anonymous]

The next day I skipped lunch because that’s the time I usually see him and then he skipped lunch too. The day after that he spotted me right away and looked at me sad, inviting almost. I’ve seen him and his friends together and they all looked at me kind of the same way, sad. He once saw me so he changed his position real quickly too.

[ChrisMaster69]

Hard to say really

was it just a normal polite DM?

it sounds like he’s trying to avoid you but also sending mixed messages

the only real way to find out is to ask him

[Asker]

Yea it was like wanting to get to know them better and saying that they’re really cute.

[ChrisMaster69]

They may not be used to girls taking the initiative and saying that.

If they have always done the chasing etc, this may be unnerved them.

Did you say he looked cute or all of them?

[Asker]

No him.

[ChrisMaster69]

I would ask him face to face if you can.

Or that to embarrassing?

[Asker]

What would I possibly say? He’s usually pretty far away because it’s a big school and/or we’re going to classes. It feels like a stretch to me.

[ChrisMaster69]

Well it’s that or simply move on and forget about it.

The un friended is a bit odd

[Wise4myage]

He regrets unfriending you.

[cookiecrusher]

That's just strange on their part