Do men really prefer blondes and if so why?

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Jaumet · Accepted Answer

I'm surprised that you, as a man, has to ask this question. Since it is rather rhetorical coming from someone who should already have an opinion on this... Seriously, do you prefer blondes or what do you prefer? Why do you specifically prefer this or that? Come on, you are a man, right? What is it about a woman that makes you prefer her rather than her? This question, coming from a male is a bit lubricous... since what do you intend to do with the information you gather... change the color of your hair... so you may attract more men?

Ok, I'm going to assume that you are just interested in what men are attracted towards and forgo why you are so interested in this subject. Here ya go, I'm blond and I would like to have children who are also blond and thus I prefer blonde women that can ensure that. Oh, was that not such a stretch of your mind to wrap around? Don't overthink things, it is always much simpler than you care to accept.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I do have a preference for women with naturally light-colored hair - light blond to strawberry-blond, ginger or carrot top.
One thing about many women with light-blond hair is, they are glabrous (their bodies have very fine hair and are mostly smooth and hairless). Also blond is the cutest color for a muff.

So, although I find that kind of hair very attractive, it isn't a big deal to me. Any color hair can be extremely attractive. The woman I married, for example, has reddish-brown hair.

xx_crystallover_xx · Accepted Answer

Some do. Some don't. Studies did say that 60% percent of men are attracted to darker features due to the "mysterious vibes", however, my boyfriends brother is a simp for blondes. My boyfriend loves the brunettes more.

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Well I mean nearly all the guys I dated in the past always dated blondes before and after me... just one gut dated a latina girl but everyone else went for a typical blonde... sooo I mean there is a pattern right

HawkPerception · Answer

Colour psychology is a real thing. Blondes look more positive, adventurous and outgoing from their appearance. This tends to subconsciously attract more guys, including myself because we tend to try and associate ourselves with things that will enhance our lives.

Females generally like guys with darker hair. All you have to do is google "black colour psychology" to see that dominance and power generally show up. That on top of elegance, mystery and sophistication are all things traits that girls are generally attracted to, even subconsciously.

ikEVERYTHING · Answer

Not sure, my fiance is blonde and for me now it's something i love but not something I was searching for. Y'know what I mean? I suppose it really doesn't matter at the end of the day. Chances are someone can fall in love with you just as easy with a hair color different to whatever they say they like, contrary to that famous quote "I'm really into blondes, later", that caused many of us men to love blondes since we were young. that definatelty didn't help. Really it depends if you're looking for sex, well first I'd advise that you observe abstinence, but if that is the case then they'll care more then cause it's not going to matter in the long run. But if not then it really doesn't matter at all.

BazookaTrouper · Answer

Not ALL men. Alfred Hitchcock seemed to, and he and people who think like him projected their own preference over other men too. But I'm not among them. I prefer white women with dark brown hair and brown eyes by default.

I guess the two reasons for this is

#1: The women I've been infatuated with all have had dark brown hair and brown eyes
#2: EVERYONE in my family who is related to me by blood has blond (e) hair and blue eyes. I have blond hair and blue eyes. As a general rule I don't find blonde women attractive because I get this feeling she's probably my cousin, or I want a woman with a hair color and eye color that contrasts with mine.

MJtheCoach · Answer

I start liking blonde girls a lot after I moved to Asia. I used to like Asia’s a lot. Until I started dating online Asian for 5 years.
Now I want a blonde girl.

Also in Asia they love white girls. If I date a hot blonde girls I can piss of Asian girls here.
And then I’ll have the upper hands and I can piss them off.

I remember I was in a club and bunch of white girls came in. I hugged one of them and all the sudden all the Asian girls started trying to get my attention.

Do men really prefer blondes and if so why?

Curmudgeon · Answer

Actually, generally not. However, two observations:

1. When "the carpet matches the drapes", so to speak, it is fascinating.
2. Somehow, a blonde woman can get away with having a few extra pounds more than say a dark haired one. I am not sure why this is.

Rob596 · Answer

I don’t have a preference. The white women I dated were blondes, but the ones I had flings with were brunette. As for the other races I dated, I think I just like women’s natural hair color the most. Now that I think about it, all the girls I’ve dated had their natural hair color.

hahahmm · Answer

I know a brunette who says when she went blonde once, guys were running around acting like her servant. Guys who never did that when she was brunette. She's an attractive woman to begin with too. But I have seen guys claim that butt ugly faced blondes were hot. I personally don't think the hair color matters.

ManOnFire · Answer

Not me. I've definitely seen some good-looking blondes but I do not prefer them. They already know the world puts them on a pedestal and is usually their fuel for being snobby and self-righteous. Yes, I'm aware that "not all" blondes are like this, but there are still enough who are, and these reasons are what turn me off.

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

Everyone's preferences are different. I find that most people don't really have a strong preference for hair color, though certain colors may be a plus to them (though something other than those colors is not a dealbreaker).

Kitten2Kitten · Answer

Blonde girls are confusing. Half of them are actually good. The other half are distracted by their appearance, bc they weren’t blonde in the first place.

Also a lot of them have some kind of an attitude. At least from the expressions on their faces when they stare at their phones.

Let's not have anyone who's blonde in here take offense. This is just my view of the matter.

cth96190 · Answer

Blonde is the highest genetic expression of the white race.
As a racial realist, who is of that blood, I want that DNA in my children.
I am blond. The mother of my children is blonde. All three of my children are blond/blonde.
None of us want inferior DNA to contaminate our bloodline.

Moose304 · Answer

This is a really touchy subject with a lot of people. I am too dang old to put hair color on the list of something so important I would be choosy about. I will tell you what I DON"T like, that is women who were NOT born blondes with blonde or bleached hair. The streaked hair is OK, but this is not what I am talking about. I also am not a big fan of women with pink, green, or blue hair! That is a big-time sexual turnoff!

Myk13 · Answer

I have noticed that I find myself attracted to whichever one that my current lady is not. I’ve dated and been is LTR with fairly equal numbers of blondes and brunettes. Both have been the party type and both have been grounded. Both can look gorgeous, sexy, smart and sophisticated.
I guess I really don’t have a preference like I thought I did.

Soleil8000 · Answer

Not particularly, or not at all - I find blonde hair insane. Also teeth with no slightly sharper canines (probably fake, but you cannot eat right without at least one set of sharper teeth, which means you have to steal from people to feed yourself processed food)

crazy8000 · Answer

Yeah...
Blond female's are also seen as stupid bimbos that doesn't possess any intelegens.

I wouldn't put any value on thing's like that when it comes to color.
Just go with what works for you. if you aren't for someone. just move on to someone else. everyone can't be. only the few precious ones are worth investing in.

cookiecrusher · Answer

A lot of blondes come off more feminine.

Doesn't mean that they are, more or less.

Just the clothing style and color matching, and makeup etc is a bit more feminine than the dark haired women.

With brunettes, usually more bold colors ared used, makes for a more sexier but also a bit more masculine energy.

BCA6010 · Answer

I don't, because the majority of them are fakes looking for attention. I've seen dozens of polls that favored brunettes by about 55:45, and I'm inclined to believe it's probably pretty accurate.

NetSapien · Answer

It isn't true no. There are men who prefer blondes as a preference, but this isn't something that can be attributed to all men.

The "men prefer blondes" stereotype came from Hollywood in the mid to late 20th century.

SweetDumplings · Answer

Men prefer a lot of thing so if some prefer blondes then that's them I don't care I'm not blonde but then again I don't care I'm not tryna change men. So who cares honestly.

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

And you’re probably with that blonde girl… Sorry I just came here to reference that, I’ll leave now, bye👋🏾

MrOracle · Answer

I don't have any special preferences for blondes, only natural redheads. Otherwise, I just prefer hair that looks like a natural color that could really be growing out of the head wearing it.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I do but, I'm not picky. girlfriend 1 had light brown/dark red hair, girlfriend 2 was kind of a dirty blonde and girlfriend 3, the one I almost married, had coal black hair. I don't know if they have natural blondes in India.

AviatorTom · Answer

That's an urban myth. Men prefer women with all kinds of hair colors. I personally prefer brunettes, although I've also successfully dated blondes and redheads in my life.

Somegirl678 · Answer

i notice the dark haired guys like blondes more, i often see dark haired men with blonde women

Rippersavage · Answer

Obviously there are some that prefer blondes but most men prefer brunettes. In fact most women prefer brunettes too

So in other words most humans prefer brunettes.

But speaking for myself I don't really care, I like them both equally

Seinna · Answer

I'm blonde... yet every guy I've dated or was friends with, when asked said he prefered brunettes. I shouldn't have asked :'D

t-8900 · Answer

I prefer Black, Dark Brown, or Chestnut brown hair actually. I'd date a girl with any hair color but I do prefer darker colors myself.

jshm2 · Answer

Nah. It's all that porn watching. The blonde aesthetic looks better on camera, hence the assertion of blondes having more fun,

Manuel2 · Answer

The question should ask is,
Do men prefer real or true blondes or women (or men) who dye their hair blonde?

Remember that Marlyn Mantle was a redhead who dyed her hair blonde, and remembered as a blonde

Lushly · Answer

Yes I'm blonde an I definitely prefer me blondes have a special meaning we look an feel an jus love when you see someone trying to aCT blonde an they have no clue what's it's like BLONDES HAVE MORE FUN

Miristheiss · Answer

I prefer red heads. Fair skin.  A few freckles would be great.

TallAnon · Answer

Some do, in college we did the rounds and the general consensus was: fuck a blonde, marry a brunette.
I think redheads > blondes > brunettes > black hair. But I don't dislike black hair, just like the others more

Baredog69 · Answer

Blonde hair, black hair, brunette, red hair makes no difference women are beautiful beautiful creatures and should be treated as such

DavidBibs · Answer

Looks exotic as most races I believe have dark hair, so blonde is kind of a rarity / exotic looks I feel on woman

iseekpinetrees · Answer

My hubby hates blondes. people in his family are blonde so he likes opposites

LikeALog · Answer

I prefer brunettes. Maybe the darker blonde shades.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Depends on the guy. Some prefer blondes for sex and brunettes for serious dating.

MysticDevice · Answer

It's purely an aesthetic reason. Its not as if blonds are inherently smarter or dumber than anyone else. Blonde hair just looks really cool to me.

HughDogg · Answer

They definitely do. I've NEVER met a guy that likes brunettes. Unlucky to all the races that have naturally dark hair I guess. (I'm joking. No offense but this is a stupid question)

Fireguy17 · Answer

I never sought after anyone just because of their hair color.

bean2k21 · Answer

I only date brunettes because I have black seats in my car.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I don't. I prefer brunettes and black haired ladies.

Ceslovas · Answer

prefer good^^ smile , girly playful cheaky one. Oh it's not what you asked. Depends on face:) Not every girl look appealing with blonde hair.

TwoToTooTutu2 · Answer

No, when Paris Hilton was relevant Blond was in style. But now Kim Kardashian is the standard, and her features are in style.

Anonymous · Answer

Not here, I like dark brown or even black hair... but hair is like maybe 3% of what matters to me in a woman... so many other more important things.

Anonymous · Answer

Eurocentric beauty standards White supremacists love their blondes

kerbeary2003 · Answer

I dyed my hair blonde for a couple of months and I think I noticed more guys hitting on me.

dragoblack · Answer

I'm honestly turned off by blond hair, i prefer dark haired women and redheads

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

I’m more into brunettes, though I do find some blondes beautiful.

Cubus · Answer

Because blonde hair is more rare than black hair. Everything that is rare is considered attractive.

Better_off_here · Answer

not me i prefer dark-haired ladies and i have always liked dark-haired women. plus for the most part blonde-haired ladies are not really blonde.

Neilbud · Answer

I'm initially attracted to blonds. That doesn't mean they will keep my attraction/attention.

Paul09 · Answer

No, I prefer dark hair. But I like natural blondes, no fake bleached hair. Does the opposite for me.

McKellar · Answer

If I had a woman in my life,... I wouldn't care if she was blonde or not.

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

I honestly prefer redheads then women with black hair, then brown.

msc545 · Answer

Yes - they tend to be sexier and more fun, and just look hotter.

Grubhub · Answer

The only blondes I prefer are taller ones with big butts

Twalli · Answer

Light hair and light eyes are considered more attractive

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

I do. If most men do? I don't know. Why I do? I don't know.

LegendaryIcon · Answer

I'm talking to a brunette/raven, who does hers blue

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