Reasons for why guy would like to text with a girl late night?

[Anonymous]

There’s no sexual undertone in their messages. She’s not a friend more like a acquaintance.

[PrettyPriya]

Maybe that is when he is free? Some people have strange hours when they are available. Could be busy up until that time or even working a late shift.

Hard to say for sure. I'm just taking guesses.

[Asker]

He told me he never goes to sleep early despite having work next day.

[PrettyPriya]

I'm guessing if you respond, he thinks it is okay to do. If you prefer he not text late, let him know.

[Asker]

I don’t mind. I actually like him. by the way he wished me good night with blushing smiley…. just friendly thing?

[PrettyPriya]

That is friendly/flirty to me. At least I would take it as a good thing!

[Asker]

I don't know if it was just friendly thing but he sent me this emoji ☺️ Which he has never sent me before lol

[PrettyPriya]

Yeah, hard to decipher what someone means with some of the emojis, but if I got it, I would take it as a good sign. Maybe next time texting drop a hint about getting together for lunch or something casual?

[Asker]

By good sign you mean him being interested?

[PrettyPriya]

I would certainly take it that way if it were me.

[Asker]

by the way this time we were chatting very late. Before I didn’t reply to his late texts and just replied to them the next day. During our conversation he was like ” don’t you usually go to sleep 9pm 🤔👀” lol he sent me that with suspicious smiley.

[PrettyPriya]

That may be nothing but an observation that usually you don't respond. That is the problem with texts and such. It is all up for interpretation.

[Asker]

I just calmly explained him why I was awake that. Do you think he’s kinda needy?

[PrettyPriya]

I don't know if I would call it needy yet. If he starts getting upset if you can't text, then I say it is needy.

[Asker]

Previously he asked why he can't see oir previous message 🤔. I told him it was because of onstagram outage lol. He thought that I deleted them.

[PrettyPriya]

Again, maybe not needy... but clingy for sure.

[Asker]

Do both examples show clingynes?

[PrettyPriya]

Possibly. The second more than the first in my opinion.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you AI Bot!

[Aurora1010]

Nothing, it can just be completely normal. Maybe he's just not sleepy and bored.

[Asker]

by the way he wished me good night with blushing smiley…. just friendly thing?

[Aurora1010]

If he uses emojis and the blushing face frequently enough, maybe it's normal. If he doesn't then I think maybe it was kind of flirty.

[Asker]

He uses laughing emojis often but smiley face emojis rarely.

[Aurora1010]

I guess then yes, if he rarely uses the blushing emoji and used it with you he likes spending time talking to you

[Jamie05rhs]

That's a good thing. It means he enjoys talking to you. Because otherwise, he wouldn't talk to you during that time slot. He would do something more enjoyable instead.

[Jamie05rhs]

Everyone wants to go to bed happy.

[Asker]

I don't know if it was just friendly thing but he sent me this emoji  Which he has never sent me before lol

[Asker]

He said “good night ☺️“

[Jamie05rhs]

I think he smiled because he wanted you to know that everything was good and well. Because sometimes someone might say "goodnight" but be angry or cold, and he wanted to make sure you understood his true emotions towards you.

[Asker]

But why the shy blushing smiley face? Why didn’t he send just normal one lol

[Asker]

He has sent me before a regular smiley face

[Jamie05rhs]

He was trying to change it up and not be bland; that's all.

[Asker]

So you don’t think that this guy is interested?

[Asker]

I took it as tho that he wanted to show me that he likes me….

[Jamie05rhs]

Yeah, he's probably interested. Is that okay with you? Do you want him to be interested?

[Asker]

Do you really think so? Yeah I do like him….

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, if it was me then yeah, that would be my theory.

And okay; cool! So keep talking to him. (You may want to confess your feelings, though, at some point, before he moves on.)

[Asker]

I think he’s actually getting clingy ( do you agree?)

[Asker]

One time he kinda got upset when I didn’t reapond to his text in the evening. I responded the next day 1pm. He had sent me a text 10pm.

[Asker]

I wouldn’t thought that he would brought that up 2 weeks later after it happened….

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, you either like him or you don't. If you like someone, you shouldn't mind them falling in love with you. I would challenge you to put yourself in the other's shoes and not be too quick to judge. Just my opinion!

[Asker]

You think he’s falling in love with me lol?

[Jamie05rhs]

I feel like I shouldn't comment anymore because I'm being a bad defense attorney for my bro here. Lol

[Asker]

Just give me your honest opinion to the last question that I asked then I won't comment anymore :)

[Jamie05rhs]

Sorry; I can't. I plead the 5th. Lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Wise4myage]

When guys do that, it usually means they are horny.
But maybe she was just lonely?

[Asker]

He isn’t flirting though just playfully teasing. Also you don’t think that he sees her as serious girlfriend material?

[Wise4myage]

Hey, anything is possible.

[Asker]

Also wishing good night with blushing smiley…. just friendly thing?

[Wise4myage]

It could be either, ask him?