For me, I'm short and don't work out that much, so a reasonably athletic girl should be stronger than me. It's just strength and muscle in general that get my attention, but because I'm short and weak, it's more likely that a stronger girl will outperform me. I know there are plenty of men who still want to be the powerful one and protect their girl, but I wanna know how exactly common it is for men to want a girl who's stronger than they are.
I'm genuinely curious. How common are men like me? How often do you see that?
How common is it? Not very...
Most of the men I know, like women that are smaller than them, including me. I'm 6'1, and I once met a woman that was taller than me in heels, and it was an instant turnoff. I can't really explain it, but it just feels masculine to me.
Are there some that like Amazon women like yourself? Sure. But not many.
My sister once tried setting me up with one of her friends, she was nice and pretty, but not my type, and didn't want to hurt my sister's friends, so I never dated her. She wasn't huge, but about 5'9 maybe.
Then she met a short, nerdy, kind of chubby guy that I found out through my sister, shares the same love of BIG women like yourself. He explained to this woman that he wanted to her to be so big that she could hold him in the palm of her hands.
She tried her best to accommodate his desires, buying big high heels and other things, but you better believe that she and her friends all think it's weird as hell, have never heard of that, and make fun of it all the time. That being said, they seem happy for now.
I often find that it's the small or super skinny men that have this fetish. Why that is, I don't know. Maybe it has something to do with never feeling dominant themselves, so they prefer to be in the submissive role. Or maybe subconsciously they want their kids to be bigger, so they think having a big wife will offset their smallness?
I often wonder how this desire comes up in men like yourself. It's very strange to me.
I admit the woman being tall is more attractive, but I meant stronger in terms of muscle power, not height. And your sister's friend has a problem with short guys, or not?
And admittedly, I actually DO prefer the submissive role and I do want to have a family one day. I would prefer to have a taller wife because I want my kids to have at least a chance of being average-sized. I might not have Short Man Syndrome myself, but I would be upset if my potential son had it (for obvious reasons).
my guess is if you are small/weak/short, then you have two options: try to change yourself, or accept yourself and go for attraction to what you lack.