Do guys cuddle with their girl best friend?

[Anonymous]

I laid my head on his shoulder and he pulled me in with both hands and started to massage my back. we’ve been friends for 3 years. is this crossing the “friendly” line?

[MossyMan]

I personally don't cuddle my female friends.
Cuddling is a romantic action and I have no romantic interest in my friends whatsoever.
If I had, they wouldn't be my friends.

[Asker]

I agree that’s why it surprised me. but i did like it

[hsshannah96]

Yep. He likes you and wants to move to the next level be careful though because he may want the relationship duties without the relationship title. He may be being manipulative.

[kyleelyn199723]

Lol that’s a great way to get in a girls pants. Never heard of the phrase “that back rub led to my pregnancy”

[Asker]

it was just innocent cuddling and we were outside so I don’t think anything would have happened. still makes me wonder though if he does want to get in my pants at some point haha

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker lol men do not offer massages to just anyone. It’s a way of him testing his limits on touching your body

[Asker]

yeah i get that. he’s just been so on and off with me i never know for sure with him. normally i’d think for sure he saw me in a romantic way but I don’t know.

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker if he is getting handsy like that, he’s definitely wanting more than a friendship lol trust me I fell for this when I was 16 and wasn’t quite ready to give up my virginity. The first thing the guy did to me was give me a back massage. He still didn’t get any lol

[Asker]

he hasn’t planned to hangout after though even when i hinted that i was free. that’s what i don’t understand. i know he cares for me, so could he be nervous in fear of ruining our friendship?

[kyleelyn199723]

Maybe possibly, or he is unsure of his feelings.

[Asker]

we can’t be in a relationship right now bc of distance but he’s eventually moving to where i am. he could possibly be waiting is what i’m thinking

[kyleelyn199723]

Definitely could be

[horatiohornblower]

I wouldn't do that to a girl I just wanted to be friends with. If they lean up against me. I'll put an arm around them. That's about it.

[Asker]

yeah and he initiated it not me. just confused as to why he didn’t bring up hanging out with me again

[Anonymous]

Maybe, I've only been that affectionate with a guy who wasn't by boyfriend under very unusual circumstances.

[Asker]

did that guy end up having feelings for you?

[Opinion Owner]

No, he was my brother and after I was sexually assaulted I stayed with him and I needed his arms wrapped around me tight to keep me from losing it.

[Asker]

omg i’m so so sorry. i’m glad he was able to help comfort you

[Wise4myage]

I never have because it would feel like I was being teased.

[RebeccaBI2000]

I have seen this. I don’t cross this line

[emperor90]

No as long as u are ok with it

[Lauren__S]

I wouldn’t either