Exhausted and not sure what to do?

[texas_giiirl30]

So my boyfriend has a phone but chooses not to text his family etc and they all look at me like I'm the reason why cause he did before he got with me. I tell him all the time to text them but he chooses not to. I'm becoming exhausting from his family constantly going through me to tell him stuff or etc some of them I don't care for and think are toxic or just shitty people and talking-to them is absolutely draining. How do I handle this situation? I feel like everytime they message me I have to respond to them or I'm an asshole.

[kyleelyn199723]

Just simply be honest and tell them that you have no clue why he doesn’t reach out to family and you will make an effort to get him to reach out. It gives insight that you aren’t the reason, even if you aren’t willing to necessarily beg him to reach out to family.

[texas_giiirl30]

I've done this before several times and yet they still act like I'm the problem. It's like my boyfriend wants them to hate me. He used to randomly only pick fights with me out of nowhere when they are around

[kyleelyn199723]

I don't know what to say, break up with him then

[awkward_author]

Let them know you don't want to be the "middle man" anymore, and they should contact him directly if they have something they need to say.

[texas_giiirl30]

He won't give them his number

[awkward_author]

In that case, let them know you’re not going to be the messenger anymore, and leave it at that. Maybe block their numbers if it becomes necessary?

[slatyb]

Tell each one of them when they ask you to forward a message "If you want to talk to , contact him directly. I'm not his secretary."

[Cowboy6666]

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