Exhausted and not sure what to do?

So my boyfriend has a phone but chooses not to text his family etc and they all look at me like I'm the reason why cause he did before he got with me. I tell him all the time to text them but he chooses not to. I'm becoming exhausting from his family constantly going through me to tell him stuff or etc some of them I don't care for and think are toxic or just shitty people and talking-to them is absolutely draining. How do I handle this situation? I feel like everytime they message me I have to respond to them or I'm an asshole.
Exhausted and not sure what to do?
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