Is it bad to stand up and block a hook up at the very last minute?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I just felt it’s rude how he just sends me his address and expects me to just show up. Like I’m some cheap or easy person.

he said he wanted friends with benefits to lead to a relationship I agreed we did sext and flirt a few days ago but yesterday he was very flaky with me and just how he expects me to come whenever he’s available on his terms I told him I was going at 7, said nothing more decided to block and ghost. Do I feel bad? yes
but this man doesn’t respect me he’s 31 too

[WispyThought]

This is good on you. I 100% agree with the actions you took, yes you might feel bad but he also doesn't seem worth it. No man should be treating you as less than and if you had accepted his actions towards you then it shows your value in yourself. I think a lot of women struggle with this and this was such a boss woman move.

[kyleelyn199723]

Why would any valuable man insist you give up your body in order to be in a relationship with them as one of the first steps to be in a relationship?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Trust me my friend told me her view how if he was serious or liked me he wouldn’t be saying let’s be friends with benefits he would want to get to know me first and wait till I’m comfortable but i of course decided to let him show me himself what his intentions are and learn the hard way, I reflected on it, spoken to my mom a little and realised yeah this person is trying to use me, I didn’t even want to give him an explanation after he just expects me to show up at his house like that which is why I decided just to block him,

[kyleelyn199723]

Your mother and your friend is 100% correct. No valuable man expects sex before they actually get to know you in real life

[TheSpaceGnome]

"I just felt it’s rude how he just sends me his address and expects me to just show up. Like I’m some cheap or easy person."

"he said he wanted friends with benefits to lead to a relationship I agreed"

Okay maybe decide what you want before dating, because thats a complete 180.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I changed my mind when I realised there was no real friendship or anything he just wants me to show up and have intercourse with him, I assumed we’d at least hang out first I didn’t like the way he handled it and it felt like it speaks volumes about his respect for me so I decided to just leave it. I know what I want, I shouldn’t have been talked into whatever he wanted because clearly at the slightest hint of bs I would’ve quit

[TheSpaceGnome]

Valid.

[PositiveNote]

It's rude, baby! It's just rude. You didn't want to hook up with a rude dude, did you? Just move on and find a decent guy who actually is looking for a real woman.

[spartan55]

Friends with benefits rarely, if ever leads to a committed relationship. He was trying to sell you on it. It sounds you are making a good decision.

[Unknown_Swan_]

100% agree.
Listen to @spartan55

[Honesttguy]

He invited you to come to his place, you said yea im coming at 7 then he blocked you and ghosted? doesn't sound like that was a guy that did that.

[rebeliouse]

there are plenty more guys out there and ones that will treat you a whole lot better even as a hook up friends with benefits i know i treat my friends with benefits a lot better than you say he does :D

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

True I just feel bad for ghosting and blocking right before we where supposed to hang out at his

[rebeliouse]

follow me dm me

oh come on how many guys treated u like shit in past if he's been a dick then treat him like one

[globetrotter22]

How about just saying no to this in the first place?

[steveRogers12]

You could at least told him you weren't interested before blocking him

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

He knows! He knows I wanted a relationship so I figure he will realise that

[steveRogers12]

He will, just poor form to not tell him

[Stevefiveo]

Sounds reasonable. An explanation before the blocking probably would have been better.

[Staximus]

Find a guy who knows how to treat a woman right

[clubmanager]

Yes it is