Is it normal behaviour for guys to check other women on social media while in relationship?

[ivannna]

Okay, I don’t know where to ask this so this page came to my mind...

I’ve noticed my boyfriend is watching other woman on instagram. First time I noticed was three months ago and I just didn’t bother with it. It happened again recently and it was picture of the same women. I didn’t hack his social media but since he let me use his phone there was unclosed window of his instagram and here was provicative picture of this woman which makes me assume he was scrolling and stopped at her picture... I don’t think he is cheating me because he let me use his phone but I’m wondering does he secretly have a crush on this girl and I don’t want third person in our relationship... it already been 3months since first time noticing and now and it seems to last.

It’s been bothering me and I’m thinking should I bring it up or let it go because I don’t want to appear insecure or like control freak.

In what percente guys do this while they are in relationship?

[mark000h]

You should say it if it bothers you. Most men will watch porn, but social media is different. It's real girls and he shouldn't be chatting with or following real girls online.

[ivannna]

Aparrently lot of men does that. It wouldn’t bother me that he is following multiple women or fitness models but focusing on one specific person makes me think he has some crush on her.

[poof_22]

Well it's normal if you are not comfortable with it. I would recommend you to fill your instagram feed with hot half naked ripped dudes. Would love if you updated s with your boyfriends reaction.

[ivannna]

I was thinking about that as well but I’m still trying not to be passive agressive... Besides I don’t have an instagram... It wouldn’t even bother me that he is checking some fitness models or some public figures but it’s a real life girl he knew before me and he liked some of her old pictures so I can only quess

[poof_22]

it will show a lot about his character. I've read about boyfriends getting whiny and having their ego bruised when their girlfriends watched porn with hot dudes with big fedex packages while at the same time blaming the woman for being emotional and over reacting when they did the same thing. Maybe your boyfriend won't care but your concern is valid but being a bit petty won't hurt you in this instance.

[ivannna]

You are right I should give myself some freedom. I do already follow some fitness modela on fb but looking their shirtless body doesn’t bring me much satisfaction lol

[poof_22]

that is not the point tho. Watch porn of jacked men with big dangus when you are with him, fill your insta with male fitness models, after doing the deed with him pull out a vibrator infront of him to make him feel insecure for not doing a good of enough job to please you. Usually this will make the man seethe in jealousy and insecurity and give him a taste of his own medicine. Most importantly tho, visit fds on reddit cause you really need to start putting your own boundaries in a relationship.

[Hangry06]

This is normal behaviour for most people. If it bothers you , talk with him

[ivannna]

It seems to be no other way