I had 100 friends on it that I actually talked with and know personally but I just deleted it because 1 gold diggers 2. Petty drama (thirsty losers saying things to her and trying to get it in even if they know she's taken and honestly I don't have time to be setting them straight) 3. Stalkers 4. Annoyances
If a guy told me this is why he wasn't on social media, I would say he posts too much personal information online. You would fall under the categories, "Some don't have enough friends/haven't met enough people to even build a friend's list so they don't bother & Some had it but deleted it cause of crazy exes", which would not make me suspicious of you.I've been on facebook for 10yrs & have almost 2000 friends, people from college, work, business deals, high school etc. So I know how to keep my page private & I don't post a lot of personal stuff, this is also why I've never experienced any drama online. It's all about presentation & why you're on social media in the first place.
I am male with no links to social media. I came across this site through browsing on google. I would say that in my experience, women are suspicious of men in general. I don't need social medi and I tried Facebook, Twitter and Instagram and I found them boring. People posting baby photos, moaning about pointless things that do not matter, or people bullying others. It's just not for me. I prefer to get on with my life without sharing EVERYTHING I see and do on a daily basis. I do call or send mms messages to my friends if I see something cool or interesting.
Please, PLEASE ! Show me a picture of your last meal ! I really want to see it... lol
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What makes him suspicious if he never introduced you to his family and friends? What would you think exactly? He's a weirdo? serial killer? lol. I don't have social media and I haven't introduced my girlfriend to any of my friends or family. I have my reasons.
Because if we've been dating a few months and are getting serious about each other, we should want to share our worlds with each other. If a guy avoided introducing me to the people he's closest to, I'd feel like he's either ashamed of me or doesn't take the relationship as seriously as I do. (If he's not close with them for whatever reason, he should open up to me about it and let me know). But yeah, I'd ultimately find it weird and off-putting.
Nobody need to give a reason why they don't use social media. If they don't use social media jut accept it.
I find it odd that someone would find it odd that someone doesn't use social media.
It's not a question about if women want a guy to have a social media because I could care less about what they want It's a question if women find it suspicious if I dont have one
yes they do
Yes! And often people with social media get trapped in the drama.
@lamathinker YESSS it makes me feel like I'm back in high school all over again