I had 100 friends on it that I actually talked with and know personally but I just deleted it because 1 gold diggers 2. Petty drama (thirsty losers saying things to her and trying to get it in even if they know she's taken and honestly I don't have time to be setting them straight) 3. Stalkers 4. Annoyances
If a guy told me this is why he wasn't on social media, I would say he posts too much personal information online. You would fall under the categories, "Some don't have enough friends/haven't met enough people to even build a friend's list so they don't bother & Some had it but deleted it cause of crazy exes", which would not make me suspicious of you.I've been on facebook for 10yrs & have almost 2000 friends, people from college, work, business deals, high school etc. So I know how to keep my page private & I don't post a lot of personal stuff, this is also why I've never experienced any drama online. It's all about presentation & why you're on social media in the first place.
I am male with no links to social media. I came across this site through browsing on google. I would say that in my experience, women are suspicious of men in general. I don't need social medi and I tried Facebook, Twitter and Instagram and I found them boring. People posting baby photos, moaning about pointless things that do not matter, or people bullying others. It's just not for me. I prefer to get on with my life without sharing EVERYTHING I see and do on a daily basis. I do call or send mms messages to my friends if I see something cool or interesting.
Please, PLEASE ! Show me a picture of your last meal ! I really want to see it... lol
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What makes him suspicious if he never introduced you to his family and friends? What would you think exactly? He's a weirdo? serial killer? lol. I don't have social media and I haven't introduced my girlfriend to any of my friends or family. I have my reasons.
Because if we've been dating a few months and are getting serious about each other, we should want to share our worlds with each other. If a guy avoided introducing me to the people he's closest to, I'd feel like he's either ashamed of me or doesn't take the relationship as seriously as I do. (If he's not close with them for whatever reason, he should open up to me about it and let me know). But yeah, I'd ultimately find it weird and off-putting.
Nobody need to give a reason why they don't use social media. If they don't use social media jut accept it.
I find it odd that someone would find it odd that someone doesn't use social media.
It's not a question about if women want a guy to have a social media because I could care less about what they want It's a question if women find it suspicious if I dont have one
yes they do
Yes! And often people with social media get trapped in the drama.
@lamathinker YESSS it makes me feel like I'm back in high school all over again
You can ask him, for instance :D :D
@sp33d those answers are not to be trusted. You're either lying to impress me or lying to hide something.
Silly girl, if you, by default, assume us all to be liars, why are you even interested?
@sp33d many men assume women are gold diggers, and they are still interested in pursuing women.
I don't care if a girl wants to stalk I mean get to know me the less the better but do you find it suspicious
I find it terribly suspicious when a man has no social media. Is he secretly a retiree or something? At least have an inactive Twitter account or something.
.. but you trust his facebook page?I digress, " those answers are not to be trusted. You're either lying to impress me or lying to hide something. "What makes you think we want to impress you?Hide something? Dear girl, not everything is your business.
@sp33d wrong. Everything is my business. I'm in the business of finding out everything about potential enemies and allies in order to use it against them in future. Villainy, you know.
This CIA background check is something from the early stages of dating/ getting into a relationship I imagine. I like your attitude, has some fire in it. Regardless, no man will or should pour out their heart to you right off the bat. Hence no facebook page, less drama :)
sp33d stfu pls... everyone has a right to an opinion it's not like I'm going to date her or anything and you shouldn't feel offended or unnecessarily attack someone because you feel offended or feel like you need to
Not talking to you to begin with. Just getting valuable insight.
You're annoying my customers
I know, right? Like, join the 21st century, grandpa!
~read in an arousing Raspy voice~ I use a pager ;3 is that hot for you
@9mfeo lmfao seriously. Great grandmas have Facebook now. And most people aren't that poor.@Asker you are looking for vomit if you say that to anyone.
:/ oh well I thought my sarcastic jokes were clever
its just that they are horrible, bulky and bad for fassshion. :(
But don't automatically assume that someone has no cell phone just because they don't bring it to school or something. Some people just don't feel comfortable with the chance of someone stealing their phone, and they don't really need it in school anyways.
@CuriousBoutStuffy yeah, can't relate.
What do you exactly mean by "can't relate".
No of course not lol... maybe... .3.
MY POINT EXACTLY AHAHAHAHAH
Maybe because people on social media use terms like; "like" and "oh my god" and "freak".
What a bitch !
Lol what a crazy, childish comment!I don't use it. I'm just different everyone else is the same!