This happened to me a few seconds ago. It’s so bizarre someone would think to send this, this was on Reddit and my Reddit bio literally says MINOR 🔞to make sure creeps don’t dm but I still get dms like this.
Men will constantly lie about their age to try and talk to minors and it’s not ok. This person thought they were slick since they sent me the first dm a few months back and I ignored it
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It’s funny how a bunch of men are getting mad that I posted this? You’re just exposing yourself at this point
Why do men try to lie about their age to talk to younger women?
It's beyond screwed up. There should be serious charges that come from doing it. Also I don't think those guys realize what kind of crap they might be getting themselves in. If you think a mom can be protective of their girl, some dads are 10x times that. So if dad finds out what they did, the girls dad might show up on their door step.
My younger brother had his wife had a girl and that is daddy's girl. You better believe he is going to meet every guy she is interested in once she hits high school and he is going to "kindly" let them know that they better not mess with her. Because he will not be too happy about it. I can see him giving a guy pulling that kind of crap with my niece getting a surprise visit and it won't be a nice one.
*some men. You’ll get less angry responses, although this one should have none.
I’d stay away from those messages. Those are the real perverts looking to groom and underage girl/boy into their own selfish devilish fantasies.
Men do the same thing that women do in a broad sense. They do it for their own selfish needs. But this is really selfish because that person is willing to take the chance, which is not only wrong, but highly frowned upon in society. Myriad people will proactively go after such.
I feel like guys like this enjoy the youth mentality of the other younger person because they don’t feel adequate and in control or wanted by older, more mature and experienced people their age. So they go after youth because they think they’re stupid and easily manipulated. People may say older guys go after younger women because of fertility etc but I’ve seen older men that are gay also go after younger boys and fake their ages. So I just think it’s predatory and a reflection of how insecure they are, and inadequate they feel amongst people their own age.
Anyone that has to lie about anything regarding themselves is simply insecure. I’m completely secure within myself as my value isn’t attached to public people. Unfortunately you cannot say the same for everyone. My fiancé who’s 15 years my senior put all his cards on the table and is a confident and secure man. Didn’t lie about his age or his possessions, so when I see men and women do this I can only wish they thought higher of themselves. Being phony is stupid. You will be found out eventually.
Yikes. That guy is a fucking desperate weirdo. Block his creepy ass.
This is the internet, what else can you expect? Pedos can get away with anything because anonymity allows them to do so 🤷🏻♀️. I still think they shouldn’t do that though.. it’s really creepy.
Honestly I don’t think minors should be on social media. What are your parents letting you on this site for? Shouldn’t you be focused graduating high school or something? Maybe pick up sports or learn another language instead of losing brain cells on reddit, twitter, and dating sites.
Minors literally don’t know what’s good for them. This is why they get lesser sentences for crimes they commit. You can’t comprehend the consequences of your actions. You shouldn’t be online where pedophiles can prey on you. It’s the internet. It’s a dangerous place. Your parents should be watching over you better. That’s just my opinion.
Simple answer. Don't go on the internet at 15 years old, and then complain on THIS site with this kind of Bullshit and pretend to be a 'victim. Plain and simple. You are not still in high school. Grow up and wait until you are 18 to play these kinds of KID GAMES.
Prob so you can relate to us more or we not seen as creepy or wish we was young again or trying to get her feel comfortable to have sex with her. But its wrong. I am 21 and I won't lie about it as I have positive intentions with you buddy, butI will be honest that I wanna be a teenager forever and relate with you on a teenage level.
I do not understand it either. I always use my real age because I don't want to have to keep up with the lies. I try to be honest from the start since friendships like anything else are built on trust. I do admit to having friends that are minors but I stay away from any conversations that are sexual in nature with them.
Not me…. I’ve seen what 50 and gray hair can go. I’m 35-37 when someone asks me. And, I have self-evident Means, although I’m not flashy, so I become Family-Husband material (25-35) to some. Others see a 💰 💵 machine (University girls)..
I have never lied about my age. My age is my age. I expect people to take that I am 76 years old sooner or later the truth will come out and you're standing there with egg on you face. I talk to older and younger the same If someone asks my age, I tell them I don't want them to like me because they think I am older I want then to like me or not for who I am.
Im gonna assume you may have been on r/teenagers where most of all the creepy old guys reside, and if so, it could be because they see a select group on their being overly horny, and tryna hook up with them. They also may just want to see if they can get a reaction. I dont get this kinda stuff, but i would just block the person and report them.
You can always just tell the guys you aren't interested. Truth be told most men prefer younger women, while most women prefer older men. I don't know why but it is pretty common.
You’re missing the extremely important fact that I’m a minor? And most women don’t prefer older men, they prefer men to be around their age just like most men date and marry women around their age
Valuing youth itself is idiotic since youth is temporary. Most people want someone that will love them for who they are and not shallow things like appearances. They want someone they can die old with
The same reason we lie about our age🤣. Everyone does it not just men. Sometimes I get perks for saying I'm older and sometimes I get perks for saying I'm younger. Depending on the situation both have advantages.
they do it so that they can gain your trust and then use it against you sooner or later. best solution is to block em because feeding these pervs/pedos is a huge waste of time
Honestly unlike women who hide their age to embarassment, men do it for sex. Usually everything is because of sex when it comes to lying about something like that.
