What is the first thing guys notice about a girl and what trait do you find most attractive?

[aestheticfrog]

[ZackBan]

Her behavior and tendencies.

I learned to look past the superficial when meeting someone.

That's not to say looks don't matter. I won't go for an ugly women simply because no woman deserves being settled for.

But once I meet a woman that has a beautiful face hair and body what I look at his how she speaks the things she says the things she's into. Those are what decide if I let her into my life and go into hers.

Basically I wanna live a certain kind of life and will only surround myself with people who can compliment that life not make it harder.

[CuriousThought]

Her demeanour is what I notice first, what I find most attractive is intelligence, not necessarily academic intellect but human intelligence. Too many girls copy eachother, follow trends and become vessels of vanity and materialism, which I hate. Its a rare find but I find a girl who's herself, to be the most attractive and desirable. Why would I date a girl who's just a fake tanned "selfie" taking bimbo, when I could date a girl who's got her own identity and isn't afraid to admit she has a star wars obsession or whatever lol

[aestheticfrog]

yes i hate seeing a bunch of people out look like exact copies of one another. and im definitely not afraid to talk about my obsession with star wars... anyone would be able to tell by the posters in my room hahaha

[CuriousThought]

I'm the same, I absolutely love star wars. I'd love to be shrunk down to ant size just to explore your room 🤣

[aestheticfrog]

hahaha if only we had the same technology marvel has! 😂

[CuriousThought]

Yes! You could shrink me 🤣

[aestheticfrog]

😂😂

[CuriousThought]

You got Snapchat? Giant friend haha

[aestheticfrog]

i unfortunately dont 😩 had some bad experiences on there... but please definitely feel free to massage me on here !

[CuriousThought]

I don't have a high enough level to message on here 😭

[aestheticfrog]

ah i didn't even know you need that :( i dont think i have that either! i dont have any other socials but lets try and keep in touch on here and ill let you know if that changes!

[CuriousThought]

Can I stay in your shoes then? 🤣 since I'm your ant size friend?

[aestheticfrog]

haha ofc, thanks to my big feet you'll have lots of room in there!

[CuriousThought]

I'll love your big feet, even if one day you decide to step on me 😭🤣

[aestheticfrog]

ill do my best to watch out for you! XD

[CuriousThought]

I'll climb the bottom of your foot like it's a giant climbing wall! 😍

[Anonymous]

Gay woman here, hopefully my opinion is still relevant.

I would say how she is carrying herself (shy or confident), then her hair, then smile or eyes depending on how close up we are

[aestheticfrog]

yes thank you!

[FilmGuy93]

Facial features. Eyes, lips, nose; stuff like that.

[FunkyMonkee]

It depends on what's available, first. Hair, face, eyes, ass, tits, legs, personality.
Most attractive: Face, eyes, hair, personality, tits, legs, ass. Possibly in that order but, personality might come in first place. There used to be this one girl that hung out with my band and everyone else thought she was ugly and they wouldn't fuck her if she paid them. She wasn't incredibly pretty, wore strange make-up, had a really raspy voice (probably from all the clove cigarettes she smoked like a chimney) and was basically, fat. But, I became interested in her based on her personality! Turns out, she already had a boyfriend and wasn't interested in me as more than a friend.

[Anonymous]

*Amber Heard is a parasite.

Anyways...
What we notice about girls is how they act, if they are entitled, spoiled, self-centred, have dignity or self respect.
Girls with class and dignity are more valuable.

A girls body is important because it shows how much she cares about her health, how she presents herself. If she exposes herself for cheap attention then she has low value and needs male attention to feel validated so she isn’t valuable.

A small ass and small boobs make a girl sexy for guys who want quality women. Pigs and guys who want quick fun love big asses and big tits. But these are the things girls want and they guys they want chasing them for some reason.

[aestheticfrog]

okk i didn't know that last one but it makes sense. thanks!

[Fireguy17]

her eyes, they are the windows to her soul, her smile.
her personality.
Someone who is not self absorbed, not constantly on her phone, not constantly posting selfies, not fake, no fish lips or fake boobs.
No excess drama, someone who is pleasant to be with.

[aestheticfrog]

aww ok thanks!

[JSmuve]

The first thing I notice is her body. The most attractive trait depends on if we're talking about personality or physical. If it's personality, her capacity to care and be emotionally intimate is the most attractive. Physically, an hourglass body is the most attractive.

[Switch91]

Her face is for sure the first thing I notice.
Sense of humor is what I find most attractive, if she can make me laugh I just melt.

[aestheticfrog]

yess i love a good sense of humor too 😩

[TheorionMage]

For better or worse, her appearance is a constant juxtaposition between prevailing society's impositions and whom she would herself ELECT to be seen as. We ALL judge a book by its cover.
A WISE fisherman chooses their lure to attract their CHOSEN prey~

[UniquelyBasic]

I first notice their body shape, and size. I really love a womens eyes and if they have a cute nose. Also confidence is super sexy even if I dont find her attractive her confidence can make her seem like the sexiest women to me.

[DeeToPlay]

What a variety of responses to choose from. Some guys are strictly to the size of boobs. while others are the ones focusing on facial features or hair color or length. Some of us are all about the shape of the body overall. To suggest that there is a correct answer to question is not going to happen. My personal opinion is the first thing noticed is her face and whether or not I find it attractive. That's the one feature that I find necessary for a chance of the relationship becoming a reality.

[Andres77]

Eyes... especially if they twinkle when she smiles.

[aestheticfrog]

aww cutee :)

[Anonymous]

I think I read somewhere once that statistically the first thing on average a man notices about a woman is her hair.

[HaveNoName]

I think that is true. (I am tbinking from own mind 🤣). The reason could be that while we cannot see other traits from far (except her size and built), hair can be seen from some distance. So we quickly make our first impression on that.

[HaveNoName]

*my own mind*

[aestheticfrog]

ok, this is a different question but do you guys typically prefer long hair?

[Opinion Owner]

I do, yes. I love long hair. I think it’s very feminine and attractive.

[In_Trance]

First thing... Posture
Most attractive... Confidence

[aestheticfrog]

me with bad posture and is super shy hahaha

[Jaykrisss]

This is usually the order i like to take the anatomy of a female i'm attracted to
First her Face
Then Lips
Thirdly Eyes
Then her sound
Her smile
How feminine she is
Her character ( i love shy but confident girls)
Then her hips
Her back
When everything falls into place the guy is in love

[Waldoe]

#1 Attitude, it doesn't have to be "upbeat" or "happy" or "complimentary" it just has to be Real, based od the real world and what's actually happening... Fake BS Attitudes are just another GAME... no thank you

[DamnSam]

Booty, legs and her hands... then comes her smile...

No guy can tell me that he looks at her eyes when he checks a girl out...

[LiamS345]

Face, but little habits and mannerisms are attractive. Eye contact and sense of humor are important. Honestly voice is also very attractive. All these together outbid face in my opinion

[MrtoddsWildRide]

I am partial to a pretty face, so that is where my eyes go first

[Hellraiser1984]

Her face. if facing her. If behind her legs butt and hair. If she's not wearing a coat or sweater or tee her back.

[Shy_Steve]

Her face, If she has an Attractive Face or not.

I like it if they come off as Shy aswell, But every Guy is Different.

[Commando_Preetam]

For me it's eyes and lips. As it is unique and beautiful as per the face.