Why does this guys friends tease me for having hu with him?

[Anonymous]

It’s been a month and a boy I hooked up with friends tease me about him still when I see them even when he’s not there. They brought it up again when he was there and it doesn’t seem like there trying to be malicious about it but he couldn’t seem to make eye contact with me when they said it. I also noticed that through out the night I could see him look at me from the corner of my eye. What does any of this mean

[Anonymous]

So childish. I can bet that when he got you into bed he bragged about it to his friends, whether it was because you were a conquest (someone not very easy to get), or the exact opposite— you were as easy as they thought you’d be. Guys are just as capable of gossiping behind your back as girls are and you’d never know unless they wanted you to. I don't know if these are guys you go out with like to the bar/club, or you see them around campus or whatever, but they’re not your friends. At least not good ones. Don’t let them make a joke of you anymore and cut ties.

[bananamber]

Reading this made me think back to my high school years... Given your description it sounds like he bragged to his friends about getting with you. And due to their reaction relentlessly teasing you, he thinks he blew it with you and he is now too nervous to confront you.

I'm just a guy, but I would say confront him. Talk to him about it. Be the adult and see if he can be an adult.

[mb120101]

Sounds like he has things going on you don’t know about.

[Asker]

Could you explain?

[mb120101]

Well he isn’t scared/nervous of you if you guys already hooked up. If they’re teasing you for being with him and he couldn’t look he was probably embarrassed about something. That’s my guess

[mb120101]

They wouldn’t laugh at you if he was embarrassed about being with you

[mb120101]

Talk to his friends and if they follow the “bro code “ and keep distance that tells you something