How often do you see someone when you’re dating long distance?

Anonymous
So I’ve been dating someone long distance for 4 months. He was in a 10 year relationship about a year ago so he’s not ready for something serious yet, he said he still has his guard up. This past weekend I went to his hometown to have dinner with his parents and meet all of his childhood friends. His mom text messages me and wants me to move there. When I came back home I asked to see him in two weeks. He said it would be too much (he always pays for our trips including hotel and meals; he won’t allow me to pay lol). He said he needs to lay low and save up.
I want to see him in May. But I’m nervous to ask. Should I wait a few weeks then ask? Or hold off asking in general so I don’t come off as needy and let him initiate?
How often do you see someone when you’re dating long distance?
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