What does it mean when a guy says " look at me"?

[Vero_Nica]

[Guy13]

Situation Dependent:

For me, it means, “Woman pay attention as forthcoming data is extremely important.” It could be financial or I love you B-tch. What was following sentence.
—Now, for a Neighbor friend of mine it meant…look me in the eye b-tch…(found out post moment).
—-And I’m the yard weeding and hearing her out front to fellow Girl describing the position he is currently in and clearly announcing on phone, “We don’t roll that way in this house 🏠.”-And she isn’t lying as he looks damn ugly walking the dog in robe/petticoat some work time mornings.

[mk200195]

Maybe you can show him this meme next time

[Vero_Nica]

Yea okay. That helps. 😄

[PrettyPriya]

Going to need a whole lot more context to answer that. I would suggest providing us with an update with more info so we can give our best opinion.

[Vero_Nica]

Well this guy is a friend. He compliments me all the time though he knows I'm in a committed relationship. Once I was with him for work while we were doing our work as usual, I was busy concentrating, all of a sudden he popped up.. pls look at me..

[PrettyPriya]

@vero_nica Thanks for the info. Ok, so when you looked at him, what did he say/do?

[Vero_Nica]

The way he stares is intense. I walk away.

[PrettyPriya]

@vero_nica sounds like he wants your attention. If he is staring intensely then perhaps he is waiting you to say something. Maybe he hopes he will see a smile or something because he has a thing for you.

Very hard to guess what goes through another person’s mind.

[Vero_Nica]

Maybe he is. I totally agree with u its hard to guess what goes through his mind. It confuses me cause he knows that I have a boyfriend but still he hits on me all the time.

[PrettyPriya]

@vero_nica Oh geez. If he is hitting on you, I think the “look at me” is an extension of that behaviour. The fact that you have a boyfriend shows how disrespectful he is to you and totally the wrong way to flirt.

[Vero_Nica]

Yes I do find disrespectful of him to do what he just he did. How to tell him to stop flirting without losing our friendship?

[PrettyPriya]

@vero_nica I think that is when you say something like “I feel kind of uncomfortable at times because it seems like you are flirting. I really value our friendship and don’t want anything to come in between that.”

Something along those lines. Sadly, you are going to have to tell him it is uncomfortable or he won’t stop. Alternatively, you can change your behaviour when he does. You can show you are annoyed by it and see if he takes the hint.

[Vero_Nica]

I did tell him that I wasn't feeling comfortable. Still he won't stop. The thing is it's hard to avoid him completely cause we work together

[PrettyPriya]

@vero_nica Damn. Then can you talk to HR or a manager and ask them to politely comment to him about his overall behaviour without singling him out?

[Vero_Nica]

Isn't that way too much?

[PrettyPriya]

@vero_nica I don’t think so if it is making you that uncomfortable. I think you need to be clear you don’t want to be singled out and you aren’t asking for someone to be terminated.

Just say you really want to do the best job possible and if you are distracted and uncomfortable, it doesn’t allow you to represent your company in the best way you know how. I don’t know if there is another option since you have told him and he won’t stop.

[Vero_Nica]

Okay I'll try. Let's see if that helps. I have no other options left or I could just cut him off

[PrettyPriya]

@vero_nica I think you are right that you only have limited options. I hope this works out and is resolved. I wish you good luck!

[Vero_Nica]

Thanks dear

[PrettyPriya]

@vero_nica most welcome and try and enjoy your weekend and not think about that too much. Take care.

[Vero_Nica]

Okay👍

[libsaretards]

It means we are done with whatever bullshit you are spouting and you better shut up and listen because we are at a snapping point.

[TheMajesticKing777]

I don't know to look at him, just guessing you know

[jokery56]

Well how does he say it? is it like all soft and sensitive like or does he go full Heath Leger (Joker)?

[nawtee_me]

If it was to do with work he might have just wanted your attention while he talked to you... That or maybe he wanted to flash you...

[Vero_Nica]

No by the time he said that we were done with the work.. He does that in a very romantically way which confuses me 🙄

[UniquelyBasic]

Look at me , I am the Captain now

[Vero_Nica]

Lol okay

[UniquelyBasic]

Do you not get the reference? Its from a tom hanks movie, Captain Phillips

[Vero_Nica]

I got it now 😄

[FunkyMonkee]

He wants you to look at him.

[Danny_dan92]

He wants you to fixated your vision balls on him

[Wise4myage]

He want's your undivided attention.

[DeeRocc]

It means that he has explosive diarrhea.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Is that a Belle reference?

[TrillXHippy]

He wants you to look at him