Frank the bugaboo, sir what don't you understand? What doesn't this dude understand? why do men chase women who don't want them?

[Uptowngirl88]

Let's makes this short and ro the point:

Frank is cousins with my patient. He lives there along with his "brother". Frank is unattractive, unhealthy, a slop, lazy and has nothing to offer.

He recently said to me, " I think a bee stung me on my neck at work. I feel a bump on my neck could you look at it?"

Me: No go see a doctor and from here it just looks like ur neck.

Him: oh that's cold so you're saying because I'm fat it's the fat from my neck?

My patient: spits out her drink laughing 🤣

Him next day: my finger feels numb. What do you think is wrong with it. Can you look at it?

Me: No , see doctor.

My patient: starts laughing 🤣


*I'm there to care for my patient and my patient only. I'm not there for him

Updates

+1 y

Why I don't like him besides the reasons I describe: he didn't want anything to do w/his cousins care when his grandma needed help & was living. She died and he got evicted from his apartment. So he's staying at my patients as a live in caregiver bc he can't get a place. Basically he's using my patient who is too ill to understand

Updates

+1 y

The really need to bring back the thumb down option

[Bluemax]

Although you framed it as a question about men, this isn't limited to men. *People* sometimes chase after people who don't want them because attraction doesn't care if the person does or does not want them.

My guess is that Frank is attracted to you. Attraction exists regardless of how you feel about him. Attraction also exists regardless of how attractive the person experiencing unrequited attraction looks. Contrary to many people's beliefs, unattractive people generally don't find other unattractive people attractive. The same forces of evolution that shaped what we generally find attractive are at work for *everyone*.

Frank would do well to make himself more attractive, if that's possible.

[Uptowngirl88]

Him not being a good person adds to his unattractiveness. I don't know if you read my update but thats an additional reason I do not like him. His ", brother " is bisexual to me he's really gay. But he is very well put together, fun , funny and a good person. He also said frank is raggedy and needs to fix himself up

[Bluemax]

How old is Frank?

[Uptowngirl88]

31..

[Bluemax]

He would be wise to improve himself starting yesterday. 😉

[Uptowngirl88]

Exactly!!!

[alance99]

Just tell him to mind his own business and you are busy with your job and not looking for any hanky panky

[Anonymous]

Here’s the thing m, if most women didn’t play the bullshit games then guys would know that you mean it when you say it but when girls actually do like guys they still pretend that they’re not interested hoping he’ll chase them more to see how much he actually likes them

so how are we supposed to fucking differentiate between when you mean it and when you fucking don’t

[Uptowngirl88]

I'm clearly not interested in him. And if he thinks someone would actually be interested in a guy that's overweight, nappy hair, doesn't shave , has no car , sleeps on an air mattress and has no money, been evicted from an apartment, has bad credit, can't cook and acts like a 5 year old, has no career , no education , no dad , a mommas boy then he needs therapist. He has no chance in hell with me

[Uptowngirl88]

If you're nothing like this then I understand your frustration.

[Uptowngirl88]

Then again men aim too high. he needs to stick to looking for someone as low as him

[Anonymous]

They think that's the only way to win a girl and that girls just "act" uninterested... But the fact is 99.9 percent of girls actually are uninterested, that's why I gave up on them and the whole chasing shit

[Opinion Owner]

If Ima do any chasing at all she gotta show she actually likes me first before I put in any effort again

[secret-admirer-perv]

Frank says my penis is stiff, could you tug it for me? Lol


Frank, the way to a womens heart is not at the bump of a neck

[TommyMountainFigure]

He's a hypochondriac..

[Uptowngirl88]

And an attention seeker. And a person who takes advantage of sick people

[TommyMountainFigure]

And I'm guessing you don't like him very much :P

[Uptowngirl88]

Absolutely not

[Anonymous]

You need a different kind of job so you don't have to see those kind of people you don't like.

[Uptowngirl88]

People are everywhere including people we don't like. That would be dumb to runaway from every issue. U might aswell live under a rock. That's giving others too much control over your life.