Why do men chase women that don't want them?

Question

Especially lesibans? I have no desire to date men at all..

boobliker · Accepted Answer

every girl/woman I been with has turned me down or pushed me away more than once, so sorry until we all tell the truth it will happen, My SO of over 45years now pushed me away 4 times then one day she see me and asked me for a lift home as she has been dumped I took her home to her house and she asked me how I knew where she lived that when I told her I had taken her home 3 times before she kissed me and run off. 6 weeks she see me at work and spoke to me nicely and then said this is your last time of asking will you go out with me? she walked away we did not see each other for over a year as I moved jobs then she got coffee and came and sat with me, we are still together 50+years latter.

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

You have men who stupidly do what tons of women do: persistently pursuing someone because they think eventually they will break through their defenses and change them, or are turned by the guy not being interested.

I prefer not to waste time on that.

provokeesmokee · Accepted Answer

They're dumb and think with their dick.

I've found it very effective to say "oh, no thank you. I'm gay" and walk away.

I also mock these sorts of men loudly with other women, where men can overhear. It's a small service.

sheikalana · Accepted Answer

They have hopes they'll change their minds.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Because having sex with a lesbian is more rewarding than any superficial relationship.

Lesbians usually have crazy nice bodies and some of them do occasionally want the real thing. But meeting one who ever would is a little rare and her being attracted to you enough to bang a few times is just the ultimate "I got it" feeling.

Not gonna lie, I was always a pretty confident person but banging a lesbian just brought it to a whole other level in terms of dating. Made me realize how much people were straight up gaslighting me. Started having way more sex after too.

Senator754 · Answer

If I knew your sexual preference, personally I wouldn’t have initiated any conversation. You have every right to live your life with free will and personal choice. Consider these types of behavior a compliment and also ignorance. If it were the other way around I’d feel the same as you. To thine own self be true.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Most men are delusional at the best of times.

Anonymous · Answer

Because some women want men to chase them. The lesbian thing, I don't know I guess they are just trying to get acclimated to being rejected because they have to know it isn't going to work.

Anonymous · Answer

i don't feel that i've ever knowingly chased a lesiban but not saying its not possible i have at some point not knowing what she was really into. cause sometimes you don't really know and there not open about who there really with

Kaamraj · Answer

Most women dont want most men, this has been demonstrated by swiping patterns on dating apps. Majority of the women are after minority of the men, that is why majority of the men have to chase after women.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Reverse psychology, you tell them you only want women and they take it as a challenge

serious_miss419 · Answer

Why does a cat chase string? Don’t dangle string and the cat won’t pounce.

Noahzayed- · Answer

Women don’t like me in general, So It doesn’t matter who I like.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Dude, I don't know about chasing lesbians. But men like a challenge. Especially men who are good at getting women.

Count_de_Monte_Volo · Answer

Looks. And movies tell us a man can make a girl like him.

007kingifrit · Answer

i dated a lesbian for 2 years so you know, it works sometimes. i don't believe in gay people i believe in stubborn people who took the lazy way out instead of learning about the opposite sex

ElvenMr · Answer

In your case i think it's because those men want to find out how truly lesbian you are, or maybe you are bi. Or they want to show you how good they are and try to convince you in some way. You can read about this a lot online actually.

exitseven · Answer

They are like dogs chasing a car. What are they going to do if they catch it?

Finchie40 · Answer

Cuz they think they can get her to change her mind , wasting their time

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Because they don’t understand that chasing is for dogs and the women that don’t like them will only use them.

Twalli · Answer

Some men think women want to be chased. She won't agree to date him unless he can prove he's willing to chase her.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Fuck if I could answer this id have less grays

shygaloo7 · Answer

Men go fishing for anything. They will prey on what they want. TBH

Anonymous · Answer

When you want steak, you don't really care if the steak wants you.

LiamJHayden · Answer

If they know, because they like wasting time and energy. If they don't know, because they don't know.

KaDooKan · Answer

men chase anything... and everything  they dont know if you dont want them until they try

Jazzy54 · Answer

Because they think the woman will change her mind.

RingOfFire · Answer

Some men and some women do this. It isn't specific to men.

Anonymous · Answer

Dunno, that’s a major turnoff for me personally. I don’t even date bisexual women.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You should probably tell them that you're a lesbian.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why women try to attract men that don't want them

Pohjolan · Answer

For starters some women play hard to get so sometimes it does work.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Print on your T. Shirt, that you need only lesbans

Blacksnake285 · Answer

I chase who I thought were Into me. In some cases they weren’t all along. They just liked the attention

rollingtwenties · Answer

By saying no and making something harder to get it infers high value. Biggest turn off to a guy is probably a girl that's been all over town

Anonymous · Answer

Typically the woman has done something to lead them on. Yes it's possible he misinterpreted something. But the majority of the time it's the woman just baiting him.

Anonymous · Answer

Why don't you ask them? I'm not interested at all.👌

whistlingwh0res · Answer

American men like to play games

Mallic00 · Answer

Because apparently when we don't chase them they consider it an insult.

riverrat3 · Answer

Men do not know if a lady is a lesbian just by looking,

SolitarySolace · Answer

Who said most men were chasing women anymore?

magiusX26 · Answer

why do women chase men who won't wife them?

gothbxtch · Answer

these men are fucking creepy

Throwawaynowknow · Answer

For the same reason women do

Anonymous · Answer

Cause they simps!

EaterPeter · Answer

Most of the time

ROGERTC1 · Answer

LOL. Silly question.

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