Is telling a girl she is vain jealousy?

[Anonymous]

This guy I'm dating often tells me I'm vain and that I only posts pics to get attention and puts me down about it and by putting myself out there i will attract men to my inbox🤨🤣 I only post face selfies and rarely. Is this pure jealousy or the start of a controlling possessive relationship?

[spartan55]

Okay, let's go over this again: guys don't get jealous of girls in that way (attention seeking) we. just. dont

[slatyb]

"This guy I'm dating often tells me I'm vain" Why are you dating him? He doesn't sound very nice.

[nawtee_me]

it is not jealousy...

[Asker]

Then what is it?