Do you ever stop wanting to have sex with that one person?

[Anonymous]

My guy friend from back in 2014 used to have the hots for me. It went away after a year or so. He never said anything but I could see it in the way he spoke and how he acted around me. Thing is he resurfaces every couple of months even after we don't see each other in person, after seeing my social media posts to talk to me, always wanting to catch up and blatantly ask me questions about my love life. Sometimes he sends something that sounds innocent but I know he meant the dirty meaning.
There was a two year break because of the pandemic and quite recently he's started hinting at wanting to marry me if I was down for it.
Can you hold a candle for someone even if it's been years? Or does he badly want to have a friends with benefits, it's been 5 years since we've seen each other in person, so I don't know how that would work.

[BraveRiver]

I have an ex that I compare to the movie Hancock…. The sex and chemistry is insane but we’re toxic together. We won’t talk for years, the first time we do it’s instinct to jump each other’s bones, and start another bad cycle.

[Asker]

Yeah but the thing is we have all this unresolved tension because nothing has ever happened. I feel it everytime we text and when we used to be in the same room. I've caught him staring at me many many many times and he doesn't look away either. The distance between us is the only thing that's stopping us from spiralling together I think.

[BraveRiver]

You asked about time and distance… it doesn’t matter. Chemistry is chemistry

[Pudsmucker]

For some reason women have a tendency to turn on and off sex. Men their sex drive is constant, which cannot be shut off.
Try flashing him and see what happens.

[Luckycharms12]

Being with person for a years and just get bored sure it happens to people got to spice things up

[boggboss]

Wait what are u actually asking sorry

[clemdenim]

it happens