Girls and Guys of GAG Help?

[Anonymous]

I just had a baby with a guy who i didn't allow around the entire pregnancy due to his behavior and how much he begged- he tried to prove himself the entire time but i stayed focus on the pregnancy and staying healthy for the baby- once i had the baby he still begged he wanted to be a father to her and i gave in feeling like he stuck around this long trying that i shouldn't keep my baby from her father. Well we planned to meet up to talk about things and he just ghosted- 2 weeks later asked for pics of her as if nothing happend (mind you he usually texts daily for updates). I didn't respond because i was so pissed off to have even given him the chance. What gives- does anyone else u understand why he would do this?

[spartan55]

Because he is a piece of shit loser? Why does it matter? I can't imagine this behavior just popped up out of nowhere which leads to question why you got pregnant by him to begin with.

[Asker]

Glad it was plainly said- and he was a one night stand- i wasn't aware of the pregnancy till the baby was developed so didn't abort- he wasn't on board initially because of the situation which i was fine w/ i told him id do it alone- but like i said he came to terms and called and texted sending paragraphs the rest of the 7 months wanting to be a dad to her. Feel blindsided

[WhitneySnow]

No clue. Maybe he met another girl or he was out late partying the night before?

[jimmy2]

Wow looks like the wrong dude