Is it nomal that I want a husband who will be my benevolent kind leader and master (NOT in abusive way) but I also get fond of men who I feel moth?

Motherly towards IN A WAY. Not totally and not in a literal or serious way. But let me explain... Its like when I notice something in a man thats vulnerable to some degree and he isn't an asshat trying to camoflage it by abusing me. I then get attracted to such a man. I want to kinda hold him and feel like his mom A BIT. again not literally. I do not give men money or pay for mens things or take care of men financially. I dont have premarital sex. Maybe mother is the wrong word then. Maybe i mean nurturing?
Is it nomal that I want a husband who will be my benevolent kind leader and master (NOT in abusive way) but I also get fond of men who I feel moth?
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