I guess looking for different opinions?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend always grabs & pinches (not aggressive) my love handles & arms, he also will run his finger under my chin. noted i’m a plus sized woman & extremely self conscious & i’ve made it clear how uncomfortable i am in my own body since i had my child. is he trying to point out my insecurities more?

[Iron_Man]

if he still does it and if you don’t like it MoveOn. what happens though the day you make love to each other there’s going to be all kinds of caressing going on

[boobliker]

try to enjoy his cresses he love you try too love what he is doing to you, and enjoy life and him too.

[In_Trance]

It's his desire versus your insecurity; best to have a conversation and meet somewhere in the middle

[Avicenna]

No, he’s just not listening

[Guy13]

Just lose weight.

[Guy13]

There are unnecessary issues being created here. You already think you can’t be loved because you’re fat…at least that’s what you’re conveying. Lose 20 lbs and it all goes away…walk in a pool 30 minutes a day…he must love you to still be touching you at all... No one touches what repulses them.

[Guy13]

This is your Issue and it’s going to be one until you lose 15lbs. I’m sure 10lb will show up well. STOP blaming your insecurities on a man who still touches you even though you are 50lbs overweight. You feel Blessed.

[Guy13]

You should feel…sorry for typo

[Asker]

i’ve lost 20 lbs & i couldn’t be happier but it’s still not where i wanna be & i’m working on it :) i’m just looking for possible reasons why he does it, if i should be insulted or flattered. if that makes sense