Guys, If you were an extremely HOT GUY would you want to find true love, or would you go on a rampage while you’re young?

Question

Would you find your “true-love” with an attractive girl?  Or would you screw all the attractive girls and stay single?

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

In general an guy over a 7 out of 10 scale rampage through their teens and 20's if they can... but not all of course. Most guys would love to, but not all can... those are the ones that fall in love with the first women they have sex with.

I was not super hot like Brad Pitt here, not physically but I was pretty handsome and always in better than average shape compared to most guys. No six pack though, and I fell in love with the first women I had sex with, and she broke my heart. Then I rampaged for a few years, knocking out notches on the bed post until I got a girl pregnant at 20 years old. So my rampage was cut short at 20, with 10 kills in less than 3 years.

Love well that's another matter, because often we think we are in love when we are not... but at 45 I seriously get way more into love than just sex. Sex with someone you love is way better than sex just for sex as far as I am concerned. But in same breath I don't fall in love without sex... so its the chicken before the egg argument.

But in general hot or not every guy would prefer to met some one fall in love and be happy with her forever, but that seldom happens for men or women and unfortunately love is not forever. So more times than not guys rampage until they get ambushed by love.

CaptainOverthink · Accepted Answer

Unsure exactly what you mean by HOT. The first thing my mind goes to is visual attractiveness but that is not so obvious from a girls POV.
There could still be a lot of pull towards a man for how he behaves and what type of aura/charisma he's emitting. phermones.

STILL, it don't necessarily mean he get's laid. He must ne able to say 'YES' in the right way in the unlikely event someone should offer.
He must also be able to go for what he wants, the whole convincing he's worthy and all. That's about social skill. But maybe that's included in HOTness, unsure.
Alternatively,
hook someone on the dancefloor. I find that an extremely subtle language (or misleading perhaps).

If being visually hot was all it took, then yes. Rampage until I find incredible chemistry at which point I'd explore that singularly until it's not it. If I had kids I'd commit though.

But then again, if I was that hot..
I'd made entierly different life-choices and made entierly different mistakes. I'd be a different person. Hard to say.

Northernlights25 · Answer

I can't say I wasn't tempted to "rampage" when in high school. Loads of cute girls around you everyday you know. But I'm a Christian so it was never really something I'd do. And whether or not you are a Believer, it is foolish to treat sex as casual, because it never is. Sex is inescapbably entwined with emotional connection and all those who abuse it sooner or later end up with conflicts, heartbreak, unwanted pregnancies and emotional issues. Obviously you should strive to find love, whether "hot" or not.

razelove · Answer

I tore through women like I was holding a contest against myself. I even got a job at a strip club later on so my poon hounding would pay me money both from the paycheck/tips, and the women I got with.

Anywho, that was fantastic for a few years, then I got to the point where I'd lost track of who I'd slept with and hadn't, the amount of STDs and frequency I had to get penicillin shots was going up. Condoms do not stop all STDs, especially if you're flinging yourself out there with someone new every week.

So I went to college, learned to date, my first marriage was messed up so there was no benchmark there, turned my image better, played the numbers game, met my wife, now we have a big happy family.

Though you find that there isn't simply an off-switch there, for men or women. If you're a slut, you don't just stop being a slut, the habits become a part of you. Anyway, that was/is tough to resolve.

TheLoneTerran · Answer

Well, I've always been told I'm bit of a romantic, whether that's a positive or a negative, I don't know, but I'd be looking for true love. A fulfilling romantic relationship with someone that might also be your best friend is one of the most satisfying experiences people can have.

Lliam · Answer

I'd definitely want love with a wonderful woman. Sex between two people who can't get enough of each other in a dedicated relationship is unbeatable.

I've had my share of fun, but there is little physical difference between one beautiful woman and another. I want my perfect match; a woman "... to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until we are parted by death."

4eyes2mouths · Answer

Neither actually. I've been told I'm very attractive and have been approached by a lot of women. I play hard to get because it's really fun in my opinion.

Sex for me is not really what I'm interested in. I do love cuddling, skin to skin contact, and making out too.

VikingWarLord · Answer

I've banged over 500+ Heauxs and have also done P0RN.
Taking care of my body, working out to get some muscle and eating right has pretty much allowed me to bang any chic I want, unless she's a 9 or 10, I wouldn't settle for ONLY HER. The fun part about snagging hotter women is they are typically more Bisexual and will play with other hot women too. I've noticed it's the more average and insecure Heauxs who have a hard time sharing. Another reason for dudes to try and snag the hotter females.

exitseven · Answer

I would think dating a lot of girls would get pretty empty after a while. I would try to find one exceptional girl and have a real relationship with her.

nawtee_me · Answer

I think that might be one of the differences between men and women. For me I would probably screw all the pretty girls. But, if I found a girl that we really hit it off together. She could be pretty or ugly it wouldn’t matter because she would become very attractive to me.

Anonymous · Answer

lol, well everyone's different. Personally I don't believe wanting a relationship or not is dependent on how attractive you are. But maybe for some? Like hot women still want relationships, I don't think it's different for us (just because he's attractive to women). But... personally, having had very little female attention in my life ever, if I were to wake up tomorrow and every woman wanted me all of the sudden lol, I might soak that in for a little bit, once I eventually got over the shock!

imfreeze95 · Answer

True love. I am a total choir boy I was raised in a religious family I probably spent hours a week in church 3 hours in the morning on Sunday 2 in the evening 2 on Wednesday still so to this day and on holy weeks (Easter and Christmas) 12 total so I believe in the sanctity of marriage.

BigNerd45 · Answer

Going on a "rampage" would only leave me broken, lost and alone. And I don't think I'd be able to find true love if a girl dates me reason being because I'm super hot or something.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

True love; duh. What's the point of being hot if you can't use it to your advantage and get what you really want? It would be foolish to waste good looks on hoeitry.

Jabberjaw · Answer

Focused on money right now. I partied for the better part of 2 years lol I need to relax. If my physique was a perfect 10 I'd be more tempted to go out because it only gets easier. But for the most part I'd keep myself inside.

Not rampage

Anonymous · Answer

I think you don't fully know what you'd do till your in that position. I remember a stripper saying once guys are only as loyal as their options. I think there's a nugget of truth in that. My heart tells me I would be loyal regardless. But I've always had the good fortune ( I guess?) to not be highly sought after by women. So the opportunity to cheat has never really been an issue. 🤣

Shane_o_d24 · Answer

just want to find true and pure love cos its just the most beautiful thing to experience. TO be loved and loving someone with all you have is like nothing else. I have been searching for it myself but nothing has come of it yet. Where it might go is what scares me. Seeing people like Amber Heard out there isn't very encouraging either so it takes a lot for sensitive guys to really trust these days.

normalice · Answer

Every girl I met until I found the one that asked for anal in the middle of an enthusiastic blow job.

Freyke · Answer

It leaves you empty in more ways than one. They see you as the hot guy and not who you stand for, the person you are. It gets old quick.

Reaper1985 · Answer

True love is a myth and with how modern laws/courts handle long term relationship, cohabitation or marriage these days. Most guys are better off playing the field while they can or walking away from it.

NathanDavis · Answer

I could already have done both of that... without being an extremely hot person but I just naturally went for meaningful relationships, wasn't much of a question either...

TexasRed95 · Answer

Love. I failed miserably at asking a girl out today and I'm told I'm pretty attractive. I am just insanely shy. I almost threw up and got shaky just thinking about asking her out. There is no way I could get into someone's bed.

VoteForLarryHussey · Answer

There are people who know they are hot and those who do not. I feel sorry for those who do not know they are hot, because the opposite sex tries to take advantage. Someone who is "hot" is also considered a "trophy."

Adronicus · Answer

My Venus is in Cancer. Most of us take relationships / sex VERY seriously. Not sure if I'm extremely hot, that's hard for one to quantify for ones self. That's my best Bruce Campbell impression on the avatar :p

maverick2022 · Answer

Probably just screw around if you're talking about Tyler Durden type character. He kicks Marla Singer out of the house as soon as the sun comes up and considers her nothing but baggage and a liability.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Screwing everything just leads you to get STIs and cause unwanted pregnancies

ImNoOne111 · Answer

That would just give me more confidence to go after any girl I like, so I probably would be more picky then I am now. So I still would search for the love

ArtemisSilver · Answer

I'd use my looks to climb the corporate ladder, acquire currency and date in my spare time maybe if I felt like it.

OddBeMe · Answer

Since I am…I tell my wife she’s insanely lucky and should be cooking me dinner. I’m currently sleeping outside and wanted to see if I could borrow a sleeping bag. Anyone?

Guy__ · Answer

I think it's possible to have such a high sex drive that you bang two or three, and having a big enough heart to love them all, and have the resources to provide for them all. If they get along why not have 3 wives?

Esperanto · Answer

All guys are different. If he's a nice guy hell look for love, if he is immature he will look for hook ups.

Tantrasutra · Answer

Both. And why not. How do you learn. By trying many "new" things. But we are all after one thing. True love in the end.

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