If this question sounds crazy everyone both men and women have a code among there own sex known as a girl code or a guy code but I wonder if you have any personal rules that you decided to make for not only yourself but other male friends and female friends to follow. You know which codes that you swear would feel like it breaking the secret rules of guy code or girl code?
I have seven guy codes that I definitely think other men should listen to in hopes of not breaking the strict guy code rules.
1. Your girlfriend and your best friend cheated behind your back is the ultimate act of betrayal. The same is in vice versa if you are guy who decides to steal your best friend girl that is definitely a dick move and the ultimate breaking of guy code.
2. Never leave your bro behind, you and your bros are a clear cut team.
3. Bros before Hoes always!
4. The bros will always have each other back 200 percent and we can't back stab each other.
5. Real bros won't ditch you completely for some girl, those are just assholes and definitely not bros.
6. No bullying of any kind that is a real dick move and feel like you aren't being a good brother of any sort.
7. If your bro is having trouble connecting with a girl it is your job as a bro to be his wingman.
These aren't the only guy code rules I tend to personally follow or thought of but they are definitely some of the biggest rules in terms of Guy code but my fellow men which guy code rules you want others men to follow and definitely respect and ladies what girl code rules you want others women to follow and respect?
Ladies and Gentlemen in terms of Guy Code and Girl Code which rules have you implemented for yourself and others of your own gender to follow?
Well the only rules the female friends and I had were “Don’t date eachother’s exes nor the ones we called dibbs on.” And we couldnt even abide by that 🤣 In 3rd grade, that hoe Selena went for my man Charles. In 6th grade, I wasn't allowed to date yet so when i turned down Deshun and he agreed to wait for me, that fckin Queen took her ass and got with him. In 8th grade, Dez wanted sex straight up and I wanted to wait, so my bff slept with him and my other friend sucked his dick. The bff slept with his cousin the same week and never knew who impregnated her. I got with the cousin in retaliation and had some fun lol. (The ex and i had a rule of not dating eachothers friends/fam, well i didn't date him but um yea.) In 11th grade, Patrick returned and i wanted to pickup where we left off. My stankass cousin took her ass and tried to get with him. But he and i got together behind her back since they technically werent official yet. Sorry but he was mine first lol. She got mad at me bt i didn't give af because i do unto others as they do unto me lol. She wronged my other friend by cheating on him. In college, dis little racist bit Andrea came for my man Parker. She definitely didn't want to see an interracial couple. In the end, Parker was still calling me while she kicked rocks. Man i could go on and on because there's so much more. I mean clearly the dudes were just as trash as us girls lol. I know I’m a bad friend bt so were they
Have common decency. Don’t befriend my past abusers or my r@pist and expect me to still be your friend. Goes for anyone im close with, regardless of gender. And if you’re going to date one of my exes, don’t talk to me about your relationship. I don’t want to know. I’ve dated both men and women, so again that is regardless of gender.
I will tell you one thing I learned in life because it is very common to see, the people that need "codes" are the ones that are way more likely to betray and stab you when the circumstances get really difficult, they usually end up making it about them or you... and they will not choose you, over them
the most loyal and faithful people in your life, will be the ones that do NOT need to promise you any code, they are just genuinely better people
a lot of people have learned that lesson the hard way... these codes only exist till she gets real
What the hell does bros before hoes mean, anyway? That you have to go out partying with your dumb ass bros instead of being with your woman? LOL Those guys can party without me and we should still be able to remain friends. And they'd better not disrespect my woman, either.
nah not exactly. It is not ditching your friends for a lay or choosing to betray their trust for her's. Usually for a guy who is either whipped with no long term prospects of it working out OR just a quick lay. We never did that with our actual gfs. "Bro can you help me out? I need to get a ride to pick up my car from the shop." "Ah shiiit man I can't today I'm kinda doing something?" (getting ready to go peg a girl in 3 hours). Thats what it means.
The basic idea is to be in control of one's actions instead of letting chemical lust control but these rules don't really work when you're in a serious relationship because your partner should come first. Assuming you picked a good partner. I'm not saying a guy should give zero time to his friends tho... but relationships go through phases. There's going to be ups and downs on the time.
I also mostly agree with @NathanDavis who says people who push these rules are the main ones breaking them anyhow. Relationships should develop naturally. I will give you as much loyalty/trust as you earn. Not a dime more.
The guys is hilarious. I could tweak that a bit having grown up with a group of men. 4 was often broken to get in a random girls pants. I was always removing tire marks.
I just have three rules. 1. Don't date a friend's ex. 2. Don't go inside of a friend's house even to wait for them if they aren't home. 3. Don't be friends with an SO of a friend.
Girl/Guy code is juvenile to be honest. Common sense should be applied to most situations where you feel you’d have to implement any kind of girl/guy code.
There is only one rule in the code. Ïf a guy likes a girl, he will do anything to be with her, if the friend does not understand it, he wasn't your "bro". Thats the only code.
Huh, other than basic chivalric shit that society bore into me, I don’t see a guy code or girl code really. Just expectations like holding doors, picking up the check, etc.
I don't follow codes. Thats probably why I never landed any dates.
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These codes are for young people only.
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