Is this a curse of being a woman?

[Babyprincess82]

That i am so easily emotionally attached strongly to guys?

If guys hit on me it can happen. I know guys think its meaningless and theyre not really interested so it doesn't mean anything. But even after i tell myself that, it doesn't change that i am crying hard and grieving over men that i didn't even have sex with (im saying that cause we all know women attach after sex). But it seems its not just sex that makes me attach although that would be way worse if i did have sex with these men who didn't have any bond to me.

[Chiarac2003]

It’s def a woman thing… but it can also b some lack of self esteem and or just a “ hit” to ur esteem at one point in the past.

[Babyprincess82]

I don't know i think it sucks we as women are so emotional and men just dont give a crap, dont care, and just glide through life.