He didn’t want to pick basic chain coffee place for our first date instead he pick trendy coffee/restaurant with nice atmosphere. Why?

[Anonymous]

I didn’t know that he likes me so much that he wants to impress me…
I think first dates usually were low effort etc.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Maybe he just prefers the local place instead of the big box store?

I mean, I like going to local places even when I'm just meeting friends. Nicer atmosphere is nicer atmosphere.

You could always suggest going to some fast food restaurant for your date next time to make sure he knows you're not taking it too seriously.

[Bambalicious]

It can mean that it’s a place he likes so he thought you would like it too OR he looked up ‘a nice coffee shop to go on a first date’.

[Keyboardkat]

Apparently he feels, and I think he's right, that a little higher-class place would be quieter and more conducive to being able to talk and get to know each other, which is what first dates are usually for, right?

[Kaneki05]

Sounds like someone who don't care about his money and more about appearance. If that's what you like then fairs. All I know is that to me is awful lol.

[Asker]

What do you mean that he doesn’t care about his money?

[Kaneki05]

You wouldn't go to a overexpensive trendy place if ya did. There is a reason why you wouldn't catch me at starbucks with my own money.

[Asker]

The place isn’t overexpensive but it’s nice place with kinda romantic atmosphere….

[Kaneki05]

Well then shrugs sounds normal.

[spartan55]

You are WAY overthinking the venue he chose... there is no meaning behind it. Is this really something to get hung up on?