What does it mean if married men tell you they’re?

[Anonymous]

Married and and expect you to accept it?

I've met a few men who have openly told me they’re married and for some reason think I’ll be okay with it. I had a man I was casually talking too tell me “every man wants to have fun with a girl my age.” Then proceeded to tell me he will pay to have sex with me. This was just a taxi driver

Then there are the much older established ones who believe buying me and having me set for life will also make me accept it.

Or they straight gawk at me infront of their wives which is super awkward as I see their conversation end because the husband is being disrespectful not paying attention to her and looking my way.

Could it be a vibe I’m giving off if so how do I turn it off

[Anonymous]

Geez that sounds so uncomfortable and eerie to hear

I'm not sure is there something you talk about when getting in a taxi or revealing clothes I hope that doesn't come off as rude. when I go places alone I always try to cover up and try to look less attractive lol just because we know how guys can get

[Asker]

Literally I had a jacket on the entire time so he never even saw my body. Until it was time to get out and he was “like omg you have a hot body too”

So I asked him what he was talking about the entire time when he was hyping me up he just said face. So yeah my body was covered the entire time.

[Asker]

Plus I was wearing jeans that were straight leg

[Anonymous]

I’ve been guilty of flirting in the past. I kept the door open just enough to see if she was interested, but was ready to close it as soon as I got my validation. I would let others in instead of intruding perversion onto someone like the scenarios you’re describing. Felt a lot of conviction for it and stopped. My marriage was in shambles at the time.

[Asker]

Ok I appreciate your response but honestly the door should never open. Remember the devil only needs a creek to get in, hope your marriage is going good tho

[Asker]

But would you say I give off the wrong vibes

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I hear you. That's why I stopped. I don't think so. Honestly if you're an attractive woman, men can be fucking perverts. I think promiscuity taking such precedence in culture poises men to look at woman as sex objects. Women go along the ride thinking that sleeping with an abundance of men will provide sustainable fulfillment. Men start to disillusion themselves as a result, and think that women are always sexed up and ready to go. They focus on that, rather than realizing that women want to feel special, attractive, valued, and unique. They fail to realize that a woman's needs are much more complex, and are to be treated with delicacy. In laments terms, culture has resulted in a decline of intimacy and romance. Women act like sluts, and men act like pigs. The media and our culture sees this as empowering progression.