Why does a co-worker who always stares at my boobs and tells me to go clubbing with him and his boys not try to get my number?

[Anonymous]

Does he love me? Like me? Or its just he wants sex? I haven't seen him at work in a while until today and he still doesn't want my nunber or anything? ;(

I feel unloved.

[ShadowMonarch]

Your "Boobs" remark is crying out loud
"He's here for sex"
The thing is this kind of notion doesn't happen if a person likes you and if you observed it, it is highly likely that he has some other motive...

[Asker]

Yeah its hard to wrap my head around that. I dont have premarital sex and dont see myself that way and i value him for stuff beyond sexuality so its weird he doesn't have the same for me.

[ShadowMonarch]

Men tend to be aggressive and on the other hand women are more emotional...

[Asker]

What do you mean by aggressive?

[ShadowMonarch]

Majority of men tend to look for physical notions and most of the time they disregard emotions

[Asker]

So men are soulless?

[Asker]

I am not showing my body. I dress covered up. So what notion is he seeing in me?

[ShadowMonarch]

It's not what I said, what I said was majority... and it's more like a gender characteristic and it doesn't affect too much... but at the same time it does exit...

Honestly there are numerous variables about why he does that.. but the most likely one is that he wants your body... even if you are always covered...

[ShadowMonarch]

And by physical notion I meant intimacy and appreciation etc

[Asker]

Yeah i was just trying to understand the defintion of what you are referring to cause ita hard to understand. I dont get why he's focused on something covered. You know?

[Asker]

He wants to appreciate me intimately is that what you are sayin? Sorry if this is too much questions then you dont have to answer it.

[ShadowMonarch]

Curiosity killed the cat I gues😅
After all that I'll say you are clueless of what trash men think about... I mean all they think about is sex and screwing women... you need to be more cautious

[Anonymous]

He's a fuckboy. Clubbing and boobs are the 2 key words here.

[Asker]

What do you mean by fboy?

[Caucasian]

Girl, you better stay away from him, by the way would you mind commenting my latest question?

[EmmaMary]

Why not surprise him by asking him yourself?

[Asker]

I dont ask guys out and I believe in tradition.

[EmmaMary]

In that case, you might just be in for a very long wait!

[Asker]

I am patient but there's no guarantee the interest will still be there in 50 years

[EmmaMary]

That's probably a very good assumption.

[OldWorldOrder]

What do you mean by, "you want to be loved?"