Was this guy trying to get my attention? If so why?

[VenusxAphrodite]

This guy has a girlfriend a couple of years ago he and I did actually sleep together once while he's been in the relationship. And he would have done it again had I allowed it. five months ago when I asked if I could massage him. (I wasn't implying anything sexual I've actually gone to school for Massage Therapy) He told me he would love to but that he doesn't think it's a good idea. And that he's trying to be a good boy. I guess saying he doesn't want to cheat. So I started talking to another guy and when he saw me talking to the other guy. He was trying to get my attention. When he saw me talking to the other guy the first time. He walked by us saying he liked my scarf. The second time he saw us talking he walked over to where we were and started talking.

I don't get why he was trying to be in my business when he has a girlfriend.

[boggboss]

U know why because he was willing to cheat before and wpuld probobly again because he thinks with his dick

[Metelda]

He is fascinated sleeping with you and want you to be accessible everytime he is tired with his girlfriend.. In short he wants to use you and if you get a boyfriend urself he probably would not do so.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes he was and you know why he was trying to get you attention cause you blew his mind ans he want more

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[Nawlins34]

He is, tell him you're not interested and walk away.

Let's break this down. I pulled quotes from your post and replied with my comment.

"This guy has a girlfriend a couple of years ago he and I did actually sleep together once while he's been in the relationship." - This more than likely sent him to the moon. To have two women in his life at the same time. I don't think it was actual feelings for you, more what the event made him feel.

"And he would have done it again had I allowed it." - He believes you would've allowed it, ESPECIALLY NOW! Why? Because...

"five months ago when I asked if I could massage him. (I wasn't implying anything sexual I've actually gone to school for Massage Therapy)" - Your explanation is irrelevant to us and him. All he's thinking is "five months ago she asked if she could massage me."

This is where the error on your part was made, I think you believed he was more mature than he is, he isn't.

"He told me he would love to but that he doesn't think it's a good idea. And that he's trying to be a good boy. I guess saying he doesn't want to cheat." - He was flirting.

"So I started talking to another guy and when he saw me talking to the other guy. He was trying to get my attention. When he saw me talking to the other guy the first time. He walked by us saying he liked my scarf." - His flirting failed and inspired competition in his eyes. He's pissed off, lol.

"The second time he saw us talking he walked over to where we were and started talking." - Yeah the fire didn't die out, he's really mad about it.

"I don't get why he was trying to be in my business when he has a girlfriend." - He wants you for sexual purposes and nothing else.

The body of history you have with him is having sex on the side. He wants that back. You misled him by approaching him at ALL, but to massage him? You poured gas on it.

He tried playing hard to get but that didn't work, now he has competition, but not for your heart.

He's just wasting your time, You have to get back in front of this and re-establish your boundaries and let him know, you're not interested.

If you are capable of not interacting with him, please do so.
Be safe and good luck.

[Wise4myage]

The sex he had with you was unforgettable.

[Xtendable]

He’s being greedy