I’d this guy trying to get my attention?

[jennifer_bloom]

Around two years ago, I tried to add the guy I like to Linkedin and offered to exchange contacts which he declined to do and now he looks at my resume every month. is he interested but afraid to approach? Like my dad has a friend who left his wife for another woman and than got betrayed by the woman he cheated with. Now he desperately wants to return to his first wife but he doesn’t have the nerve to ask for a second chance.

[silkjames]

Umm I think a man betraying a woman trust is most definitely different from some dude u thought likes u and does not have the guts to ask u out but maybe that dude with someone else did u ask him does he know that your willing to give him a chance people can't read minds online and the cheating man knows why he can't ask he knows the answer already. U should give some kind of a sign u are willing to talk to whatever person that likes u maybe he will step up and check too see if he is single first!

[ohboyohboy76]

LinkedIn is well known for notifying you of profile views. If someone looks at your profile, surely they're comfortable knowing you're going to know about it? I think I'd feel a little flattered about it, but this guy could also easily DM you without too much risk if he was really interested in interacting so maybe take it cautiously.

[globetrotter22]

Are you sure this guy is single? It’s very unusual for men to decline social media connections (especially on boring LinkedIn) from women. Either they are avoiding problems given they are already taken or they dislike the woman for one reason or another.

I got a feeling he’s already married or has a girlfriend. He might be interested in you but he doesn’t want to do something stupid.

Also it’s easy to misinterpret people’s motives with social media behavior. If it’s a repeated action (always liking someone’s photos/posts, viewing stories) that’s one thing. But a just reviewing someone’s resume on LinkedIn is another.

[donnny2367764]

Guys are still immature even in their 30's... so I would not make much of him. You should focus your energy on someone who isn't trying to play silly games. A real man will approach you upfront and direct without hesitation.

[On_cloud_wine]

What does your dad’s friends’ affairs have anything to do with the guy you’re talking about? I didn’t even know linked in shows who views it…

[Alwayreckles93]

Um just because he checks your LinkedIn does not necessarily mean he likes you. Maybe he is just looking for a new employee to work for him.

[cookiecrusher]

That's not how you pick new employees though 😗

[Mangospacho]

I rarely check my LinkedIn so now you got me worried how many people I inadvertently betrayed now. 🤔

[CallmeTheKnight]

Are you sure about this guy? Doesn't sound like anything good will come from this.

[cookiecrusher]

He declined, move on.

At best now wants a hookup.

[charlean]

if a guy wanted you, you’d know

[Coolhand19]

Sounds complicated... maybe you should move on.

[emperor90]

He seems dodgy stay away

[melanieeeB]

Nope