Should I be upset?

[Anonymous]

This guy has been trying to get with me for months, I always dodged him or id talk to him and then just stop, he still was very persistent and continued messaging me asking how I was or he’d heart my pics to get my attention. So recently I finally decided to give it a chance. He was shocked I actually talk to him now. We’ve been texting everyday, good conversations, he always asks how I’m doing or we talk and joke and we’ve kinda built a little bond. We decided to go on a date next weekend. He always says “you’re mine” or he’ll call me beautiful we talk all the time, at work, whatever he’s doing or whatever I’m doing we always talk. Or he wants to FaceTime. I don’t really put my face in the camera… Yesterday he told me he was going to a different city, it’s like 3 hours from him. I was like okay, then when he got there he asked if I wanted to FaceTime, at that moment I was getting a pedicure so I didn’t wanna ft him, he ended up calling me again I didn’t answer. Then after I was done which was about an hour later I messaged him saying hey, he responded and I asked what he was doing he told me he was checking into his hotel. I said okay then proceeded to ask why was he in that city anyways. He didn’t respond, but hours later seen my message since he has his read receipts on. It’s been almost 20 hours, he hasn’t responded yet , but has been active on Facebook. So it’s clear he’s ignoring me.. Do I have the right to be mad and does this all sound fishy?

[spartan55]

Yeah the red flags 🚩are everywhere... he is showing you who he is... don't ignore it.
You should stop with the games too.

[Asker]

He said he went there because his friend was there and they all went out and apparently he left his phone in the car so he wouldn't lose it. I don’t get why he couldn’t have stayed at his friend house for the day/night instead of getting a hotel. Doesn’t even make sense

[spartan55]

Why doesn't it make sense? Maybe his friend didn't live close, maybe they were drunk.
Why are you having him explain himself already you aren't even together, right?

[williamHD]

Sounds fishy probably has a wife or another mistress

[Asker]

He doesn’t have a wife for sure but I’m thinking it’s another girl or something …… not sure why he couldn’t have just told me what the hell he was doing instead of ignoring my question.

[williamHD]

Drop him

[Asker]

I did ask him the other day if he talked to someone he said one other girl every now and then. I’ve talked to guys too so I don't know. But like what should I do?