First off, if you gave this guy a fair shot and you don't want to be with him, it's not rude to say so. You don't have to date anyone. Just because he wants you doesn't mean you owe him a date or anything.
I would be upfront. Deleting him, blocking him or ignoring him is not going to send the message. You need to be honest and tell him the truth. That is the only way he is going to get it. I know it can be hard to tell the truth, and you might feel bad. But it's worse to not be honest and have this guy continue to think he has a chance.
Just tell him like this "Listen, I have been doing a lot of thinking and I just don't think I'm interested in seeing you anymore. I just don't feel like we have a connection and I don't want to waste your time." See what he comes back with. Hopefully he will respect your decision and move on to another girl.
He could have waited a long time because he's shy. Or maybe he wasn't sure if he was interested at first? It's hard to know without knowing him. But people do things for all different reasons. It can be scary to go up to someone and ask them on a date. So maybe he was just trying to work up the courage.
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Ignore him and block him.
Simply tell him that you don't like him that way.
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