What is first thing you notice about a guy?

[lumberfish]

Are looks an automatic yes or no when meeting a guy? Does personality matter as well?

[SueShe]

To me, looks have nothing to do with finding the right person. There are plenty of boys and girls that place much more importance on other qualities.

I would go anytime with a person that has a number of physical disadvantages but has a generous heart, an intellect that allows for deep, meaningful and sensible conversations and a personality that stands out of the crowd rather than with a guy that is obsessed with his physical appearance, the size of his penile appendage or his height.

What counts in life is what is inside this shell.

Inner beauty stays as long as the person lives while the outer shell is fading away with time and is just the shadow of what it was once.

The first thing I notice is how this person acts, his/her body language and the hidden signs he/she is sends out. The eyes are the mirror of the soul and if they communicate positivity or not. The hands are also one of the first things I notice. If they are well kept or not is also an indicator about the person.

[PrettyPriya]

Sorry but I had to give a very rare “bug-eyed, love freak” emoji to you because I like this opinion so much.

I should have just given a pretzel. 🥨

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Thanks, my ego will go through the roof at this rate :-)

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe Most welcome. I won't opine as I think this is the best opinion that could have been given. I suggest the asker consider MHO (Most Helpful Opinion) if he finds so as well. 🙂

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya That's it. My head went to the roof and into my attic :-)

[Anonymous]

Looks and body language are the first things I notice and yes that automaticslly makes me either not interested or interested in getting to know him more, because yes personality also matter. Looks and personality are equally important.

[Anonymous]

Personality is everything.