Why does he not love me if we're close, best friends and he's always there for me?

[Anonymous]

I have a great emotional bond too. But we were intimate last night and I feel like I'm only getting more and more attached 🥺🥺🥺🥺

[nitsuj86]

Might find you attractive enough to sleep with a few times, but not enough to make you his girlfriend.

Just because you really like him, doesn't mean he really likes you. Could be you are annoying, or clingy, or not his type, it could be anything really. I have dated girls that were nice, and fine to be around, but I just didn't have strong feelings for them. They didn't do anything wrong, we just weren't a good match in my opinion.

Nothing you can really do about it. If you try and change yourself to fit him better, your true self will come out eventually, and it will be emotionally exhausting. Just find someone that likes you for you. If he's not giving you want you want, find someone that will. Don't chase a guy that isn't into just because you think he's really hot, you will get over it trust me.

[yourgirl2010]

How do you know if he doesn't love you? He may be just too shy or you have to be even closer :)

[Asker]

He really cares about me and protective, but when I was crying talking to him about how no one loves me and wants the same things as me with me, he said I'll find someone who loves me and accepts me inside and out but it takes time. And I asked him if I'm attractive and he said "yes, but remember I told you, it has to be someone who accepts you and loves you inside and out" and I agree

[yourgirl2010]

That's quite convincing, but he never mentioned who will love you 😉 You're not the only one, and love will come ❤️

[Asker]

It is? How? Yeah he didn't. When will it? Do I have hope with him?

[yourgirl2010]

Most likely yes! And love may come in 6 months MAX!

[Asker]

After being friends and being close?

[Asker]

And he said he's looking for a girlfriend but he didn't say anything about me

[Mate100]

Make a move and find out

[Asker]

Is telling him I have feelings for him good enough? I don't know why, but when I was telling him how I feel about love, what I want with someone, I could've sworn I heard him say make a move and see what happens. And I told him I usually don't and i wait for someone else to, but the couple times I tried it didn't go anywhere

[Mate100]

If it didn't go anywhere then its better to move on.