After viewing your videos and photos, I can see that you are very pretty. Therefore, I am absolutely certain that guys approach you and other guys would approach you if you would just give them a chance by being friendly, smiling, and saying, "Hi." Therefore, when you say, guys don't approach, what you mean is the guys that do approach you don't count because they are not hot. That is, they are not sexy, they are not athletic enough, and they are not tall, dark, and handsome.
If your standards are unrealistically too high, you need to lower them or stop complaining and lying to yourself and others. I know that because I have the same problem. The boy I like doesn’t seem to notice me even though I give him hints. Instead he is into soccer and other sports. However, too many fat and stupid boys approach me and I can tell that much older guys, that I wouldn’t be allow to date even if I wanted to, indicate that they would like to approach me but I am not going to give them an opportunity.
Yeah well you are very right not every guy will look like Derek Hale I should stop lol
@Guy__ yeah i do
Absolutely, don't stop. At age 18, you are at your peak desirability. Your desirability will stay flat until about age 22 and then start dropping; slowly until the mid to upper 20s and then more rapidly. Therefore, you have 4 years to find the most desirable husband. After age 22, if you don't have a husband, your search needs to become urgent.
@JohnK123 Actually, I believe a girl's desirability peaks at age 14 the age of Shakespeare's Juliet and stays flat for 4 years before it stops dropping. However, in our society, people don't know they truth because they have been taught a girl must be 18 and preferable older to get married so I raised it 4 years.
Fear of rejection could be one reason why they don't approach you. Insecurity, and the belief that they're perhaps "not good enough" could be another.
Yeah maybe but i mean I saw one guy from that other school looking at me a lot and then his friends started punching him lol
It was so obvious
My daughter saw a little boy playing near us and pointed him out to me.
I said "go talk to him."
she bashfully replied as she curled up close in my arms "I am scared to"
"He is too" I said warmly curling my head down to look at her upside down. "you both are afraid some one has only to be brave enough to say hello"
People like you are a blessing to all of those who are shy, bitter, disgruntled, and afraid.
Don't give up. You are doing wonders. You may not see all the fruits of your efforts.
I am the same way and I have little in friends. But I think for me the next step is inviting groups of people to go places.
Ha! you got a shy little annon troll following you. Putting a lot of effort into disagreeing with every single comment 3 times even 4. Suppose s/he has 3 accounts. you must be making them super jealous for them to put that much effort into being negative..
@Guy__ LOL have you tried bubble bathing them with compliments. :D
Hay what kind of bird do you have? I had a friend who had a parakeet that was allowed to fly around the house freely. It was too cute when it would land on me while I was over lounging on the couch watching TV. Of course it pooped where it will too.
@Guy__ no in her video. LOL I should have added that reference.
@Guy__ lol if you compliment every single girl stop doing it to me then
lovebird
@Guy__ Well i guess you mean what you say to me just look at me heheh
I just point out flaws as if they are no big deal at all. Everyone deals with the same things.
"so you just pitched a tantrum. Welcome to the human race. Least you didn't do it on the news and pretend it was for some righteous woke purpose. Besides you kind of look cute when you do that"
Is the question "why aren't good, willing, ladies not asked out?"
For one, if you're at school many view it as a serious place you're supposed to work at. If they look at you during busy times around exams (which are also stressful and stress hormones aren't a bonus for relationship talk) even if they found a spare moment to talk to you, it may seem like an inappropriate place.
You say boys punch each other when they know one likes you, obviously they care about other's judgements, which isn't very mature. Maybe they are afraid of ANY relationships for various reasons, such as knowing they're not ready for a sustainable one?
Hmmm maybe you are right
Looks like every opinion on here has two pink downvotes. Maybe trolls.
Maybe girls are just pissed that nobody chases them despite them looking good and visiting places they think are appropriate for approaching?
That can be explained by how both sperm counts and testosterone levels on average dropped 60% after past 5 decades.
Now men are less manly than what females are biologically wired to seek.
When guys are leaking prostate fluid from being turned on and not releasing, it can be physically painful to keep holding in. In that case I feel no embarrassment in anything I do, and try my best not to approach the girls I probably shouldn't be approaching. But again some of then act so submissive when they see me turned on it's uncomfortable.
@Guy__ RE: "both sperm counts and testosterone levels on average dropped 60% after past 5 decades." I am going to research that and see what I can find. If I find something interesting enough, I may post it on GAG.
You can spend thousands of hours researching, just the chemicals alone, maybe check out the book "estrogeneration", one of the best.
Or it will take you even more to investigate the effect of electricity on our bodies.
It's been years since I stopped caring to learn more, kind of depressing and tiring to be the only one to know all this.
The most recent article I read on fertility can be opened in pdf from this page;
https://theexcelpractice.com/sperm-count-drop/
Hi Kelley,
I wonder if you looked into anything.
If you didn't, the document I already shared has a few sources listed at the bottom. I was just discussing this topic on another question and sent the one of them, a 2017 systematic review showing a 50-60% male fertility decline in 5 decades.
Just read the first few sentences, won't take too long.
academic.oup.com/humupd/article/23/6/646/4035689
If you want good information about electromagnetic technology and our health, let me know. There are some very important things to do to minimize the damage of non ionizing electromagnetic radiation, while still using the technology.
@Guy__ "Swan was initially skeptical, but she decided to look into it some more." I'm like Swan; i. e., skeptical. That type of research is far beyond my abilities even if I had the time. When I stated, I would research, it was to see if other studies supported the claim. Many people on GAG say things that has no basis; yours does. Certainly, I looked at the links you provided and watched the video and read the articles one that duplicated the video which was at least somewhat if not a lot convincing. Also, I found other sites that support the claim. However, not all sites do. For example the following site cast some doubts: www.bbc.com/.../20120515-are-sperm-counts-dropping which mentions a Danish study
I am inclined to believe, your claim may be true and certainly I believe it is partially true but I am not totally convinced.
In any case I know from personal experience that low testosterone symptoms such as fatigue and moodiness have absolutely disappeared since the year 2017, when I took this into consideration. Haven't gotten a single headache in 5 years.
I have to warn you that google is absolutely scary to use as the only search engine. I can literally type in a headline and it won't show up... because to google, profit is more important than our education...
Try qwant. com alongside whenever you're researching, it's less biased.
I know Google has agendas but I thought for most subjects they were okay. Regardless, thank you for suggesting Qwant.
Kelley, I invite you to my poll
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Dude guys just look at a girl and think she's pretty and that's it, and they go on back to the task at hand.
Most will assume that you are taken.
The confident guys will hit on you, but it would be likely that they are players.
I think in life you will find it difficult to get guys who are genuinely interested in you, most guys that you will meet probably will only like your physical attributes, and then once you offer them your body, the next day they would move on to the next gal that they meet. Such is life.
You are young, ignore guys for now, and just work on yourself. Get some life experiences first and be a good judge of character.
These are your best years, use them well and the right guy will one-day find ya.
PEACE!
well those guys who use me , dont know its their loss lol... Its so sad that guys for real think its noram to fuck one girl and go to the next lmao
there is a lot to lose actually. I have a good personality, am smart and many guys say i look unique.
yeah okay but i still think i look unique :)
I never said that i just said that i dont think everyone is equally beautiful... its like saying everyone is equally intelligent. Like albert einstein lmao
everybody knows that there are some unattractive people. You can't change that. I mean personality plays a huge role
Yes you maybe ""Unique"" but that by itself isn't enough to get a guy to commit to you. Your personality matters here, be a kind, sweet and caring person, not just to the people you like but to everyone,
the right guy will see that in you and then he will ask you out and then he will consider you different, and may think of committing to you.
Otherwise all you will attract are guys who just use you for your looks and nothing much else.
yup I can see why no guy approaches you now, it's good to be down to earth and humble, those are attractive personality traits.
Personally for me, if the girl is attractive but her personality is bad, I get turned off instantly and I will never even consider letting her near me. Keep that in mind, personality matters a lot to guys, more than you think, its not always about looks.
well actually i am nice to everyone and my teachers say its not right because i am too sweet and polite and bad boys can use me :) thats literally something i dont wanna experience.
well actually being humble is overrated... Many people think that but you do you i suppose.
How you treat others will be how others treat you, so treat others well, irrespective of whether they look attractive or not, treat everyone equally. You will attract a guy with those similar qualities, if you find a kind guy in return, just give him a chance, that's all I have to say. Be smart about how you judge people, most men you meet will definitely use you if you are too naive.
PEACE!
But okay i should be more humble i guess but i am humble for example just not about my looks. I am humble for other things.. like i dont think i am very smart but people say i am and teachers too
Okay hahahha anyway you seem smart and cool by the way!! I would love to get to know you tbh
I actually never treated unattractive people like crap :/
I am sweet to evryone especially if they are cool
Okay then... As you wish
good question... i say maybe ur body language is not welcoming maybe ur always closed off like for example crossing ur arms in front of people will make them think that u dont want to talk or u dont wanna be approached also having a poker face all the time will make people not approach u... i think thats the main problem and lets put attractiveness aside cause ur good looking and im positive that the issue is not with ur looks
Yeah i am sure it's that hahha
I am too serious lol
Okay thanks for your opinion
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Sweet don’t let it bother you! Guys are dumb in high school and a lot of girls leave high school with bad experiences. Especially relationship experiences… but you are sweet and smart and you seem like a lot of fun I have no doubt that collage will go better for you!
ok its ok trust me
In college a girl is free from her parents’ restrictions so in that respect, college might go better. However, most colleges are about 60% female (3 girls for every 2 guys) and, after deduction the couples, the odds for girls are horrendous.
@KelleyNice by the way that person who is downvoting you is my stalker who doesn't have a life and is all day downvoting you guys
@KelleyNice she literally calls me arrogant and ugly let her be i just delete her commnets without reading them lol
@Th3ft That is the way it should be, but you didn’t provide any links to support your claim. However, I Goggled and found the following:
The 2021 Average Age of Marriage
In 2021, the average age of marriage for female participants was 33, while male respondents married at age 35. The average age of marriage in the US therefore falls at 34 years. However, there was a difference in average age between those who postponed their wedding (average age: 34) and those who didn't (average age: 33). This would make sense, as those who postponed their wedding from 2020 to 2021 married a year later than planned. Either way, this year's average age of marriage has increased from 2019 and 2020, when the average marital age for a couple was 32.
www.theknot.com/.../average-age-of-marriage
I don’t believe meet in college and wait a decade to get married. Therefore, your statement is not supported by any facts I can find.
I mean I respect the amount of balls you have this to post this like this. I will always respect balls lol, but I mean c'mon you are 18 for crying out loud. You have plenty of time. Also news flash you women have the power when it comes to dating and marriage. If you haven't learned that then you soon will trust me.
ok then eheheh
intimidation, fear of rejection, they may assume you are taken already, maybe you don't appear approachable in their eyes (even if you personally think you are). could be a number of things.
my solution is to just approach guys yourself.
Yeah that's true kind of
yeah take matters into your own hands if you want a guy :P
i personally would have loved it if women approached me.. actually one did and i went out with her lol. it didn't work out in the end but just saying it can work for women too.
Yeah you are so right
cute voice and accent by the way ;)
Thanks heheh i have proficiency by the way😌
I watched your video and I have to say I love your accent!
Thanksss thats sweet
Same @marianna546 where is your accent from?
@zeitgeist057 greece and russia
oh wow I would have never guessed that, but it's a great combination! :D
@zeitgeist057 i knoww
My first guess was russian accent, then saw greek letter on video titles.
I also remember one scientist I saw on an interview, I also found her hot, here is her page
https://uk.linkedin.com/in/elenaseranov
At the language section:
English
Full professional proficiency
Greek
Native or bilingual proficiency
German
Elementary proficiency
Russian
Native or bilingual proficiency
They were afraid to make the first move u can always find ways to talk to them ask for help or compliment them to start a convo. I ve been there when i never made a move on my crush i changed that later on. Try finding ways to get in touch with them or ways to start a convo.
Also be clear with them what u are seeking most guys confuse what women want in life.
Can I be honest with you? It is nothing wrong with you. It is just that they don't really know you and I really don't talk to strangers much. I don't want to bother them and I don't want people bothering me really
Make eye contact. Make eye contact. Make eye contact.
its easy to say difficult to do
I think it has nothing to do with you but most people just don't like to approach. In my case, I prefer minding my own business unless someone talks to me.
Hahaha you are funny
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They might be thinking the same thing, tmshe looked at us and didn't say hi and now they are sad 😂
Lmaoo
Maybe u are right
Shy guys like me cannot talk with beautiful girls in person 😅
Hahhaa... I don't know tbh they were talking to other girls though comfortably
Maybe they know them already and feel comfortable with them.
Yeah maybe I don't know haha
Exams are stressful and most people just want to get them over with and aren't thinking about a new relationship.
Wow you are incredibly beautiful you know that? i am being extremely honest right now i am also confused why you are having trouble finding a guy or making friends. You look like an amazing and kind and wonderful person
I can't click on the videos, can you copy and paste a link under this comment
if you can see the "watch on Youtube" part in the video image you can try clicking right there on that.
How’d your exams go? Did you do well?
Yeah very well
You're so fuckable 😘
You have YouTube? 🤣
hahhaha yeah but i only use it for GAG purposes
great question
Thanks sweetheart
Hahha😍
I wonder too
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