It doesn't really matter if its right or wrong.. You are who you are, so there is no point in fighting it.
I can relate though because usually my first thought is to try and be nice to people. It's only because I weigh advice up i give in my head and think NO, I have to give the advice based on what I would want to be given if I asked for it.
I suppose it's good to think both ways and then try and pick the most objective, irrespective of whether or not it is what they want to hear. Otherwise how is anyone ever going to trust in you?
This is called perception and/or empathy. Having this ability is a GOOD trait as you know when people are trying to manipulate you. The key is to call people out on their manipulative bullshit and not give them the answer they want just because they want it.
Sounds like a self esteem issue. The way I look at it is they need to entertain me by being able to hold a convo. If they can't hold one then neither than I. It takes two
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You can’t do that snd as you see it’s exhausting to even try
I think only psychopaths don't. It's normal to think about what others want. How much weight you give to it says what type of a person you are. You might just be a people pleaser.
Of course I WANT to give people the answer they want to hear. But sometimes people NEED to hear some things they don't want to.
s no I don’t overthink that much
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