Why is my boyfriend going back to a friend who is not a nice person who he disliked?

Anonymous
Would really appreciate some views on this:-

My boyfriend was friends with this guy only for like a year or so and they used to ride motorbikes together. My boyfriend then met me and this guy, let’s call him mark, was having relationship problems so they stopped speaking. Mark was also a massive asshole who ignored a lot of my boyfriends messages when he was trying to get a bike back from mark that he was storing. Mark has since cheated on the mother of his two children and is with someone else who he has got pregnant.

Out of nowhere, my boyfriend has started talking to mark again and mark is already being a dick. He’s sent my boyfriend mean messages about another guy they knew which is bullying behaviour and sent him about 12 pictures of his house to try and make my boyfriend jealous. He hadn’t spoken to him for over a year and this is the first thing he does…really!
I dislike him but my boyfriend has arranged to meet mark for tea this week. I’ve expressed my concerns but he makes excuses for him. Not long ago he was saying what a dick he is…

I am quite sociable and can only imagine it’s because I came home later than usual last week after going for a drink with a lady work friend who is like a mother to me. She’s much older (60s) so not a party type friend at all.

It has turned me off him though! Why is he so desperate going back to this loser? After a year!!
Why is my boyfriend going back to a friend who is not a nice person who he disliked?
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