I finally realized my work crush isn't interested he's just a selfish man. I feel dumb. How do I move on?

[R5guuu]

Even the good things evil people do are cruel

[NZGirl07]

Vent your feelings to a friend or family member, getting it off your chest helps. Try focus on hobbies, eg cooking, reading, gaming and maybe watch some new shows to find a celeb crush ahaha.

[R5guuu]

Thank you sis

[Anonymous]

Well you're trying to convince us. But based on your emotional post I think you need to convince yourself that you're moving on.
Don't take it so personal. He didn't reject you. He rejected HIS PERCEPTION of who you are.

[R5guuu]

Thank you. It sucks when you like someone but they see you as below them

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. Since guys are typically the ones dealing with the rejection (because guys do a disproportionateamount of the asking out). I always tell guys what I just told you.
If a woman rejects me of course it sucks. But then remind myself she clearly doesn't know me. Because I'm a helluva catch. And if she realized that she'd be tripping over herself to date me. And in hindsight it's good she turned me down. Because if she can't see what a catch I am she's not very bright. And why would I want to date somebody that is that dumb?
See, that's what you got to tell yourself.

[roy_ricky09]

You are 30 acting like 16. Pull yourself together and forget about it.

[R5guuu]

Late 20s. Am i?

[roy_ricky09]

Follow me

[R5guuu]

Why not

[Anonymous]

Just focus on other things. It'll pass with time. Stay busy.

[MrCommodore]

Are you certain that he doesn't like you?

[R5guuu]

Lets just say if he does , he has a strange way of showing it

[MrCommodore]

Yeah but how guys behave depends on their personality type, if introverted type, he might not openly show that he is interested. Its almost a self preservation thing, where they fear to put their feelings out there in case they get rejected or are humiliated. However this only applies to cases where this couple haven't kissed etc and are unsure of how the other person feels.

[R5guuu]

Well i dont know if he is

[YourSong]

Find yourself a new crush