DOES a 40 year old coworker like me all of a sudden after 2 years?

[Anonymous]

2 years ago he said i must have tons of guys after me. I thought maybe he was joking because thats not accurate in my view. So i just ignored his comment as if he was joking. He could have been, I don't know. Its a weird thing to insinuate out the blue about a girl who is too shy to even show cleavage. I am a nerdy type. So it made no sense. Many girls around here dress sexy so why target me for such a comment?
So anyway, lately he has been weird around me and I don't know if its my imagination r not but he has times where he has seemed nervous or awkward with me and it's weird cause i know him as a fairly smooth guy.
He mumbles stuff to me and loves telling me to fix my clothes or wear something else or how to do my job (i know how to do my job? I think..)

[dynamicyandere]

If he suddenly is showing interest in you, something changed in his mind about you.


What caused the change? Who knows. It’s up to speculation.


The fact is, he’s attracted to you for some reason.


And, just because you’re quiet and dress modestly doesn’t mean it makes you less attractive. You’re just a different type. I don’t know much about you but from your post, perhaps you come off as like a ‘nice girl’, modest, and clean-cut. That’s a type.


There are guys that may be drawn to that type of girl and other guys that prefer something else.


I myself, prefer a bit more modesty as dressing too provocatively screams: “I need more male attention to feel validated!” It can be a form of insecurity masked by a facade of confidence.

[ChrisMike1919]

He's probably seeing you in a new light.