Dealing with an attention seeker?

[VVG87]

What is the best way to deal with an attention seeking fiance? together for 5 years. He's always been an attention seeker from a day 1 I met him. I don't want to change him for who he is , but it's getting harder to deal.. it gets old 😑

[Anonymous]

Well don't marry yet. Like you say, it's who he is, so if it's getting to you, maybe he's not "the one". Don't ignore this or just think it'll get better. You may not be able to "deal", it's probably going to fester and fester until one day you can't stand it anymore. Really think about if this is the guy you really want to marry?

[Honesttguy]

What is he like excited dog licking your face and jumping around?

[LazerBean]

By dumping. You shouldn't have to cope with annoying things an a relationship, the whole purpose of dating is to find someone who isn't annoying.

[VVG87]

Thank you for responding.

[Anonymous]

Are you sure he is an attention seeker? Or perhaps you are confusing it with him being a simp?

[VVG87]

He admitted it himself. He needs approval from everyone. He's always talking loud in every party just to make sure people heard him.

[VVG87]

He admitted it himself. He needs approval from everyone. He's always talking loud in every party just to make sure people hear him. And the list goes on. Some of our mutual friends calls him Mr. Know it all. Tell me if that's attention seeker or no?

[KrakenAttackin]

This is the problem EVERY man has in relationships.

[SeekingVirginWife]

I'm sorry? Why are you seeking attention?