GUYS, what does it mean if a guy has went from always replying fast to replying slowly and leaving you on opened/delivered for hours/mins at a time?

[Anonymous]

also sometimes he responds quick but then afterwards leaves me on delivered/opened for ages again

[Tomcat68]

He’s either…
busy at the time and read it but wanted to take time to thoughtfully respond
he is losing interest so he is trying to distance himself from you
he testing you to see how you respond to less attention
he may not feel as strongly about the relationship (seeing as more casual)
He may feel like he is being too clingy (too clingy can be a turn off)

I would start by asking him what he was doing to rule out just being busy. If it wasn’t because he was busy, you probably need to ask him more directly and be open to an honest response. Even if it’s not what you want to hear.

[spartan55]

It means he is normal guy who gets bored of texting quickly. Don't take it personal.

[Nahid1707]

Don’t talk to people like that.

[Asker]

problem is, he’s my boyfriend:/

[Nahid1707]

i was going to say it would help you in life not talking to people who leave your message unread

I’m sorry
Is he busy with high school or work?

[Asker]

No it’s okay, I see what you’re saying. Perhaps he is but he went from non stop snapping and texting me to not responding to me as often. What should I do?

[Nahid1707]

How old are you two?

Give it a little bit of time

[In_Trance]

it means he's doing other things